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Well we can't say that it's all psychological, but that's definitely a factor and could be an important one for the OP.

I tend to get much better at getting and staying hard with a certain woman...

Yep.



Thanks for the advice. I suppose I should try it, you're right that eventually people come and talk to you. I've been to, like, performances before - music or comedy, in pubs or other...

Yea I've been on dating sites for nearly three years, on and off. I've met a few people from them, some were ok. I don't really feel like I belong there, though, and always preferred the girls I met...

Hi - I'd like to gather some tips or advice about this.

I'm 25, male, fairly good looking. I rather lack confidence in myself, though, and I'm quite shy. A couple of drinks soon sorts that out,...

Tell me how!!!
*grabs your collar and shakes you*

Correct! I feel pretty worthless and struggle to delude myself otherwise.

I do have pretty low testosterone (I know from blood tests), but who knows which came first. My pussy attitude of the...

I "believe it" because it's what I discovered myself through two main routes:

1. Trial and error - which behaviours and actions attract women, and which repel them.
2. Observing and learning from...

That would be a man, essentially.



Aye, I learnt all this myself and do firmly and completely believe it. It definitely works, and once I started basically being a total cunt I had a lot more...

I certainly hope so.



I'm not really concerned about that. There are various immovable obstructions to me doing any kind of "long term" friendship with a girl so I don't worry about that.


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Let's see, I don't get much action but I've turned down fairly clear offers of sex a few times, and these are the reasons:

> Firstly, lots because I was too naive and shy to realise what the...

I'm 25 and live alone, and have no friends in this city. That's ok really, I'm generally very solitary anyway. BUT it has always annoyed me how bad I am with girls and how few encounters I've had. I...

Never appear needy or desperate, and make yourself appear high-value, desired and popular. See some of my threads for more info.

Yea basically once I turned 19 or so, I was done. I'm closer to 30 now and practically impotent a lot of the time, but there are things I can do to help such as ensuring I am eating a lot, sleeping a...

Yea basically.



Why are you?



I say.

You sound pretty creepy and a typical undesirable "nice guy".

Main tip: don't "open up to her", girls hate that crap. If you want to make something physical happen between you guys then you have...

This is such a ridiculous dichotomy, lol.

And post picture examples of each, we don't know what you're thinking of exactly.

So far none of the women I've been intimate with had any interest in their "G-spot" nor seemed to derive pleasure from it. There is a clear patch of different tissue there in the vagina but it never...

Ok, so just tell me how you like "sex AND foreplay" to last, put together. Does that make sense? Or if you're still unwilling to cooperate, just tell me how long for each and I'll do the sums myself?

The question was "including foreplay". The whole sex session, no matter what you're actually doing.

I include foreplay as part of "sex", as in my post. And when you're doing it for that long it's not just a case of foreplay-then-penetration-then-finish, but doing different stuff all the time and...

Simple question, how long do you like sex session (including foreplay) to last? And, usually, why do you want them to end? If you ever get that far, I mean. Do you just get bored and lose...

That happens a lot around here, lol. I've several times been recommended to seek counselling, to correct my obviously wrong ideas and emotions.




Pretty meaningless, tbh.



This is the...

Try dating sites - I've had a couple of 40+ women from there. I guess I'm glad I tried it but I now firmly prefer younger!

On the contrary, OP, surely no one can ever be "over" an ex and at peace with it all until they don't hate them. I'm indifferent towards all of the girls I knew only for a few weeks, but my only...

You'll never get feedback or "reasons", don't expect any. You have to try to analyse it yourself, I suppose. Try to think if you did anything to scare her off, or why else she might have lost...