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Dear M,

Today is the first day that I've thought my life might be able to continue without you. I don't believe that I will find anyone else quite like you, which is incredibly sad as you have so...

I have thought about putting my books in storage and just leaving. I know that everything I have can be replaced, or that I could return to the storage facility later to pick my things up. But, we've...

I think "Ich habe keine Scham" is kind of evil to say. I DO have a sense of shame.
"Darf ich dich ficken?" or, "Can I f*ck you"made me laugh, as did "Bitte kommen Sie hier mit Ihrer Unterwäsche in...

I've had friends in various parts of the world offer to let me stay with them while I'm sorting my future out. So, perhaps I should do that. One of my friends said that M is only a symptom of my...

I'm working on leaving and in therapy for guidance. But, it always feels good to have other people validate what my therapist says (which you do). Packing up all of my 3000 books in Singapore, plus...

My hubby is physically abusive. He's also an alcoholic. I think I am the one that deserves better than him.

I've been married to someone else for 6 years. In fact, yesterday was my (depressing) 6 year wedding anniversary. I spent it at one of the most luxurious hotels in the world, with my husband, and was...

I would really like to practice my German though. I would really like to practice my German on M.

My marriage is crumbling around my feet. I'm done with S (the husband) and all I want to do is fly to Germany and sit on M's (the ex-lover) front step until he comes home from work, so that I can...

Ernest Hemingway wrote, " I knew that everything good and bad left an emptiness when it stopped. But if it was bad, the emptiness filled up by itself. If it was good you could only fill it by finding...

The cats are still living happily at our flat in Singapore.

Wow. WOW. Isn't the POINT of this forum to discuss EXACTLY what you are asking me why I am discussing? How vitrolic! Please explain to me what you, personally, think the "Broken Hearts Forum" is for?...

I already said I was in therapy.

As I went to university in Paris, I've already seen what the rest of the E.U. has to offer... S and M's nationalities really have nothing to do with anything.

I...

Every time I contact you I feel more humiliated than the last time. You never respond. I wish I could forget your phone number, your email addresses and how lovely your voice is. These have been the...

I don't think I'm a romance junkie at all, as I've been married 6 years and only even thought about M once S tried to kick me out from China. I HATE drama, yet here I am. S is not really unhappy in...

I have those sleepless nights too. They are horrible. I've tried to read, but reading never puts me to sleep (I like reading). I've tried to meditate, but all I think about is him. I've tried...

I kept thinking, "he's gay, he's gay", when I was reading your post, but we never really know what is going on with other people, do we?

It sounds to me like you just weren't a good match.

He picked me up at the train station in Frankfurt on a Friday afternoon, very calm, relaxed and happy to see me. We drove back to his house in his nice black Audi and he carried all of my suitcases...

It isn't that I am afraid of being by myself, because I actually like my own company, but I am married to someone that CONSTANTLY tells me how horrible I am, which has messed with my self-esteem. He...

The following things remind me of you and I cannot stand it:
-My iPhone
-My iPad
-My little HP computer
-My grey suitcase that I bought in Amsterdam just to come see you (will never use it again)...

Every day is a struggle. You know I've always been a dreamer, but now I'll find myself in a quiet moment and imagine what our life would be like if I hadn't run away and if you hadn't decided to hate...

I was, until last September, the perfect wife. I had given up my extremely successful career to follow my husband S (who is French) to Singapore for his job. I watched him flourish in his career...