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I know. I just thought it was too early to take it seriously and that he was just being a typical guy. What confused me is, if he's so phobic, why did he bother going out with me on all those dates...

Sorry for length, just very confused..

I met a guy at grad school a year ago (we’re both 24). We were friends til he asked for my number this May. On our 2nd date, he asked if I was dating...

He's extremely temperamental about his artwork/art shows. Maybe it was too much pressure on him to have me there. I don't know. I didn't go though.

Now I'm just unsure what to do. I have no idea...

Yes, same guy. Well, I can't be 100% sure about his honesty, but in later conversations he kind of hinted that he hadn't wanted me there because he pretty much, in nicer terms, didn't want to...

Ok, but why would a guy who doesn't want a relationship GO OUT on 5 dates with a woman where things went great, buy her a birthday gift 2 MONTHS before it's even her birthday, call/text her every...

Well the way he phrased it, it sounded like he was saying he needed time to decide if he wanted a relationship with ME, not whether he wanted a relationship in general. I think if he hadn't even made...

I met this guy at grad school a year ago. We were friends only, until he asked for my number this May. On our 2nd date, he asked if I was just dating casually, or looking for a relationship. I said I...

UPDATE: (yes another one)
Good lord. I'm about ready to throw my phone off a cliff, lol. NOW he won't stop texting and keeps suggesting that I stop by. What the hell!!??

Him: It's pretty quiet...

Thanks for understanding, that's exactly how I felt about it. Instead of being excited, he was discouraging. It makes no sense to me.

????? I don't **** assholes. This is why I'm here trying to figure him out before I make such a stupid decision. But thanks.

UPDATE
Well, I sent him a text saying I had other plans and wouldn't be making it.

Him: Ok well if your plans fall through you could always stop by for a bit if you want.
Me: Oh well thank you...

LOL. I sure hope that's not the reason.

I guess, but I am always afraid that I'm going to come off as dramatic or something. He just seems to genuinely not get it.

Fair enough, but am I really being too sensitive here? I'm not denying it at all. I do know I'm a sensitive person. But for some reason this particular situation has me thinking "No, I'm not being...

The thing is, we've known one another for almost a year (we were friends, go to the same very small grad school). I didn't know he had interest - I had a boyfriend and thought we were just friends. A...

So far, I've been on 4 dates with this guy. He's been a gentleman, affectionate, and calls or texts me every single day.

Yesterday, we went out on another date. Overall it went well.Now, in the...

Anyone have any advice? Sorry, I know it's kind of a long/confusing post.

I met this guy who was always super awkward/nervous around me, but he finally got my number. He started texting me, and would text me every day after class for about 2 weeks. He asked me out, and the...