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Hi there, happy new year!
I have had this history with a girl for a good few years now. In a nut shell she had a boyfriend who worked away we became inseparable, I fell for her in a big way told her...

Thanks for the reply :)
In a nutshell she had been with her boyfriend for 6 years, I knew her from before they got together (not that long) we were always friends but for years 3 and 4 of their...

Hi all, an update on an old problem.

A few years back I came on here with a problem I had with a friend I had, we basically were friends but spent way to much time together and developed strong...

I shall certainly give this a go, think I might have to learn it in Spanish as well :)

HI all,

After all the crap over the last year I have moved on a lot and a couple of weeks ago met a girl out who I quite like. I am learning Spanish and I picked up on a group or girls out that...

Right so after the time I've had with the girl in m life for the last few years (previous threads) I am no in no contact and starting to feel better about things, still think about her but seem to...

I agree guys and we had the discussion that we needed to go no contact and I thought we had but the last week or two she has started to contact me again, now last night regarding my Granddad and...

So she has been in contact quite a bit over the last week and a bit, well at least something each day except one I think, texts, snap chat (although prob not just sent to me) replying to things I put...

It is a horrible feeling and one I want to get rid off, I know I mean a lot to her but maybe not as much as she made out, anyway she's now chosen her path so I have to accept it and get on with it,...

Harsh but probably fair to some extent, I did see someone last year to help me through it, I also saw someone for anxiety/ocd issue's which I suffer from not just related to this problem which did...

Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.
I know she finds it easier to not contact me than I find it because she has on the most part what she wants, she has said to me that when she his with him...

Hi all, If you have read my previous posts you'll know I have been entangled in a 3 year emotional lock with this girl who has had for the most part a boyfriend, we spent nearly all our time together...

I completely agree with you, she should leave me to get over her and then we can be friends again, but at the same time she doesn't want me to because she wants what we had back so badly.
Very...

Yeah I know I do, I was going to post in the ask a female section to try and get some advice idea of why she wants to be friends again so strongly, is it cos deep down she wants more, is it cos she's...

Ah ok, I did look and wondered if because it hadn't been active for a while, no worries :)

Thought I would put an update on here, I was going to add to the thread I had started but it's been closed for some reason?
Anyway mainly cos I'm feeling a bit down and wanted to get some of it...

Mate I completely agree with you, I am making excuses because i ultimately don't want to do what i know I have to.
I will openly accept that's what I am doing, I need to actually stop being such a...

Right so i got another text last night saying 'When are you free for a movie and chill out? I miss 'st66' time :( x' so I left it because, now I know no contact is no contact but I can't just be rude...

I'm not patting myself on the back for anything, I was just saying I have made changes and yes I know I need to be firmer and tell her to leave me alone and yes I know I do need to ignore her...

Hi again all, so i've been doing really well since last post in not having hardly any contact and felt better about it. Her and her boyfriend were off on trips etc, I know because she was plastering...

I completely agree with you and that attitude is exactly what I am going to work on and do agree it's one of my biggest flaws!

That's one thing I have really started to realise that I need to care more about how I am than the other people. My biggest worry is when I make the step to cut contact and other people notice...

Smackie's advice is bang on and I know I have to do it I'm just trying to do it in a way that will cause me less hassle in the long run, if I go hardcore no contact I'll get reactions and hassle but...

I'm no going hardcore no contact, but half and half, my problem I have is if I go full no contact and make it obvious then other people may pick up on it and wonder why after we have been so close...

Hi all, so i have posted on here a while ago explaining the situation with a friend of mine and myself having a very close relationship over the last few years which ended with us both saying we had...