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Seriously?! And you're not even 18 yet?
First, I fear she's got issues if she's trolling online for underage guys. She's either just looking to play you or is really insecure and needs someone to...

How old is this girl anyway?

You have no proof that the picture was taken while he was with you. You have no argument whatsoever.
Guys are visual creatures and some of them like to hang on to sexy reminders of their past. He...

Haxan, you can re-post my quotes from last week until your fingers fall off. It won't make a difference: that's how I felt then, this is how I feel NOW.
I already said it was a defence mechanism...

You're so sure of that, aren't you? I'm the one who said that if nothing happened by the end of the trip, I would be the one to approach him. And I didn't need anyone to suggest it.



I realize...

Although I like the guy, and I'd LIKE to have sex with him eventually, fact is, I'm not ready for it yet. I've known him for 2 weeks. Yes, we get along and yes, we had a great time. But I'm not THERE...

All I meant by that was that he kissed me, so then I knew he was interested as well. We MADE OUT, people.
I didn't realize I had to go into specific detail as to what we did or did NOT do. Lesson...

Honey, I'm not speaking for other women, but if all I wanted a "need" fulfilled, I wouldn't go through all this trouble. I don't have any problem getting my needs met when that's what I'm after. But...

Really? Are you kidding me?
For questions 1 and 2, refer back to post #47. THAT'S why I didn't have sex with him.
As for #3, well, that just says a lot about you, doesn't it? I guess if a woman...

Thanks. I even took some of your wardrobe advice *lol*

Two glasses of wine at dinner, but trust me, I didn't "have to" have anything.
Believe it or not, even though what happened was AMAZING, I stopped it before we actually "hooked up". He respected...

So last night it happened: I don't know why the hell he waited so long but I no longer wonder if he feels the same way :)

Exactly. That's why I don't want to jump to conclusions or do anything I'll end up regretting later. If he's not into me, I don't want to force anything, period. We're arriving tomorrow for the...

Well I can't speak for him, but I don't want anything to happen before the wedding (which is on Saturday so we're getting close!) If we started making out, I wouldn't be able to stop myself and I'd...

Quick update: He asked if I wanted to watch a movie on TV last night so I said sure. We sat on his bed, I got close to him and leaned my head on his shoulder and started to watch. A couple of minutes...

I don't think I could go that far. It would be totally out of left field for me. But thanks for the suggestion!
No hot tubs in the room. We're trying to be cost-efficient, hence the sharing.
I'll...

*lol* From West coast to East coast. And we started the trip around 9 days ago, technically not 2 weeks yet. I met him just before that. We've been making lots of stops along the way. If it was...

Actually, no, I'm not. I'm usually spontaneous and spur of the moment. I guess I feel like I've got a lot riding on this and don't want to mess it up.

A small part of me is a little teeny, tiny...

Yeah, like the rest of the trip! Like I said, we still have to spend a lot of time together in the near future and the last thing I want to do is make things weird between us. It'll make the wedding...

Sadly, no :upset:

He's made sweet little gestures here and there. Like he'll let me sleep in while he goes out to get breakfast for us so we can have it in our room.
When a song he knows I like...

Omigod, you have no idea!....
I want to, more than anything. But I know I can't. Self restraint really sucks sometimes!

We haven't discussed the going home part yet (we may fly back instead of drive) but yes, we are sharing hotel rooms on the trip (2 double beds).

Har har, thanks for that. Like I said, not interested in just hooking up.

I suppose I just need some outside perspective on this "unique" situation...

I'm 25 and currently on a cross-country road trip with a guy, 27, who I've known about but never met until about 2...