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    I know you're crazy for her, but for now you...

    I know you're crazy for her, but for now you should leave her be. She needs time to recover still it seems and she still has that baggage. If you try too hard, you'll end up pushing her and making...
  2. You take it slow. Just talk to her casually for a...

    You take it slow. Just talk to her casually for a while and then ask if she'd like to hang out sometime after school or on the weekend. Nothing fancy. Just maybe lunch or the mall. That's what you do.
  3. I'm not here for ranks or to be famous. I'm just...

    I'm not here for ranks or to be famous. I'm just here to help others. That's my only purpose.


    Good luck with this girl!
  4. I like what I'm reading thus far. Keep it going....

    I like what I'm reading thus far. Keep it going. Don't be too forward though. Just make casual talk for now. We want to see if she could potentially be interested in you.
  5. Good luck with that. I hope all goes well!

    Good luck with that. I hope all goes well!
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    Wait wait, you're going to say that you suck and...

    Wait wait, you're going to say that you suck and have emotional issues? He seems like he has issues as well so don't go beating yourself up like that. The fact that he's taking out a lot on you and...
  7. Stop acting so desperate. It's pathetic and it'll...

    Stop acting so desperate. It's pathetic and it'll make you mess up this chance. Just give her a text tomorrow maybe and see how she's doing. It's not that difficult so stop making it sound like it...
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    In that case, perhaps there is hope on his side...

    In that case, perhaps there is hope on his side or he's at least unsure. Not everyone is good at being direct about things.

    Might I ask, why did you two break up in the first place?
  9. She's not playing hard to get. She wants to take...

    She's not playing hard to get. She wants to take this slow. Don't rush it. It'll make you seem desperate if you rush this. Take your time. Respect her wishes otherwise she'll want to push you away.
  10. Wait a few days. See, if you call right away,...

    Wait a few days. See, if you call right away, it'd seem a bit desperate. Don't go stalking her on fb or those things. You don't need to. You haver her number now. You could text her instead and ask...
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    Perhaps he does feel uncomfortable. Try to...

    Perhaps he does feel uncomfortable. Try to remember that you two used to be together and a lot of times it does feel awkward to talk to an ex and try to come to mutual non-relationship thing. It...
  12. I'm surprised after the way he's treated you, you...

    I'm surprised after the way he's treated you, you haven't come up with the courage to just leave yet. You need to take a long look in the mirror and see that you are better than this. Yes you do love...
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    It's good that you want to leave the past behind....

    It's good that you want to leave the past behind. I'm just not sure that not resuming communication with him is the answer. It doesn't erase all the problems. It just dusts them underneath a rug...
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    It's good that you are trying to get yourself to...

    It's good that you are trying to get yourself to an emotional equilibrium first before anything else. However, there are a few things you should consider:

    1) You don't trust him. Okay, he did...
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    Well like I said, a restraining order works. I...

    Well like I said, a restraining order works. I mean you should confront him and tell him to get out of your life. Get friends if you have to if it'll help but you definitely should tell him straight...
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    You are trying to force yourself to emotionally...

    You are trying to force yourself to emotionally love someone. It's really not easy. The way you sound, it is getting a bit desperate so that just makes it worse. I have a feeling there's something...
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    Well if you two drifted apart, then this is a...

    Well if you two drifted apart, then this is a classic case of the girl trying to see if you really feel sad about a breakup as a means to see if you truly cared. See, if you aren't all sad about it...
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    He seems to be regretting his decision. Maybe at...

    He seems to be regretting his decision. Maybe at first he was okay with it but seeing you a lot maybe made him realize he made a mistake. He is acting somewhat immature about it though, now more than...
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    Well the loss of his business has taken its toll...

    Well the loss of his business has taken its toll on him. Just continue to be there for him, but make sure to protect him and prevent him from doing anything irrational if his sadness gets the better...
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    Poll: Well it is tough in a long distance. If you two...

    Well it is tough in a long distance. If you two talk to each other everyday and still love each other, then it'll be fine. Have you considered visiting him for a weekend maybe? I'm assuming he will...
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    Why did she break up with you in the first place?...

    Why did she break up with you in the first place? Was it to hurt you? That's what it seems like here. She seems fascinated with your reaction. I mean okay maybe she didn't break up to hurt you. I...
  22. Thread: confused

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    Well those are signs to point in that direction....

    Well those are signs to point in that direction. I wonder why he'd be so distant towards you though. "Distant" in what way? You live with the guy so does it mean he's rarely home and rarely talks to...
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    Listen, I know it's tough but you need to respect...

    Listen, I know it's tough but you need to respect her wishes. Those days away from you gave her time to think about this. She's not happy about this but hey she was at least honest with you. Please...
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    He seems very stalkerish and immature. Ignoring...

    He seems very stalkerish and immature. Ignoring someone like that only triggers him to keep on doing this to get attention. He probably wants you back but can you really see yourself with a guy like...
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    He hit you in the face? BREAK UP WITH HIM! Okay...

    He hit you in the face? BREAK UP WITH HIM! Okay you hit him first buy my goodness that's one of the no-no's a guy should be doing. This really looks like it's going to get worse. Breaking up should...
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