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    Who cares? They're not coming to judge your...

    Who cares? They're not coming to judge your housekeeping skills, they're coming to deal with your son. It's OK if the house is messy and other people see it. Really, it's not the end of the world....
  2. Thread: I'm a cheater

    by ShellyZ
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    There's no shame in seeking therapy. Clearly you...

    There's no shame in seeking therapy. Clearly you need it because you're engaging in some very self-destructive behaviors. You'll never be able to have a healthy relationship with anyone if you don't...
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    Oh, we're defining sex now? For most people,...

    Oh, we're defining sex now? For most people, "sex" means "sexual intercourse." If you want to debate semantics and insist that hand jobs and blowjobs can be classified as "having sex," go right...
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    If she says they didn't have sex, then they...

    If she says they didn't have sex, then they didn't have sex. I think she would know, she was there.



    For now, there's nothing you can do. Just carry on with your own life, and eventually he'll...
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    Being messed up about his ex is no excuse. Let...

    Being messed up about his ex is no excuse. Let him be messed up about it by himself, and maybe when he matures a little bit he'll start talking to you again.
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    Kinda sounds like he might want to live with you...

    Kinda sounds like he might want to live with you so he doesn't have to get a job and support himself.
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    Forgive you for what? He was leading you on,...

    Forgive you for what? He was leading you on, seeing how far he could get with you even though he didn't have feelings for you. You have every right to be angry about that. Don't bother with him...
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    Sorry you're feeling so crummy! You're right,...

    Sorry you're feeling so crummy! You're right, hydrocodone is not very strong. They gave me that after I had my wisdom teeth pulled and it did nothing for the pain. As for the housework, DON'T DO IT....
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    Well, I'm American, so I would never say "It's...

    Well, I'm American, so I would never say "It's sorted," but I think it means "I've worked it out" or something like that. However, it seems like your girl is being deliberately vague, so maybe you...
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    There's no need to put a time limit on it. The...

    There's no need to put a time limit on it. The best time to have sex is when you're ready. But I agree that you should talk to him about it first, so he understands why you're waiting.

    And there...
  11. Have you ever had speech therapy? That could...

    Have you ever had speech therapy? That could help. I don't know if I could ever date a guy who stammers, I suppose it depends how bad it is, but a frequent stammer would drive me crazy.
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    If he dumps you when he finds out, then he's not...

    If he dumps you when he finds out, then he's not worth keeping anyway. I doubt he will, most men are very understanding about this. You're not a freak, everyone does things at their own pace. He will...
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    He needs to adjust his technique. Obviously lots...

    He needs to adjust his technique. Obviously lots of foreplay and lube is required, but when it comes time for the actual sex, he needs to go VERY slow. He shouldn't be pushing it in. Excuse me if...
  14. I never ask the guys I date how many partners...

    I never ask the guys I date how many partners they've had. It's none of my business and I don't care how many people he slept with before me. We always use condoms so we're as safe as possible in...
  15. It really doesn't sound like you're prepared to...

    It really doesn't sound like you're prepared to be in a marriage. When you're married to someone, you see them at their best and their worst. Everyone has ups and downs in their life, everyone goes...
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    Um no, in that thread I'm arguing that women have...

    Um no, in that thread I'm arguing that women have the right to say no to sex whenever they want. Men have the same right. It's really very simple. Please don't bring that thread into this one, you'll...
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    Men do this too sometimes. It's not just a girl...

    Men do this too sometimes. It's not just a girl thing. I'm a woman and I've never done this, so I can't say why your girl is doing it, but she owes you an explanation.
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    HER kids?! You mean THEIR kids. He can walk away...

    HER kids?! You mean THEIR kids. He can walk away from his relationship with this woman at any time, but he can't walk away from his relationship with his kids. At the very least, he would be required...
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    Nope. Look back through this thread, I only...

    Nope. Look back through this thread, I only joined it recently. You're getting the ladies mixed up.
  20. Thread: Saving Up.

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    He would know better than that. I believe in...

    He would know better than that. I believe in communication.
  21. Sometimes women don't orgasm. It's normal. Just...

    Sometimes women don't orgasm. It's normal. Just because it worked before doesn't mean it will work every time. Besides, the journey is just as important as the destination. If you both learn to enjoy...
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    It's not being a hypocrite, it's just changing...

    It's not being a hypocrite, it's just changing your mind. I know you've changed your mind about something before. People change their minds all the time. Ever met a recovered drug addict? They did...
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    I know. I've had wonderful relationships like...

    I know. I've had wonderful relationships like this. And I've figured out a great way to get it: Take it slow, proceed with caution. I wait a long time for sex, and so I easily weed out the men who...
  24. Thread: Saving Up.

    by ShellyZ
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    No. It's a normal bodily function, there's...

    No. It's a normal bodily function, there's nothing special about it.



    No. It's the man's body that turns me on, not the stuff inside it.



    No. As long as it goes into a condom or he cleans...
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    If she says yes when you ask her out on a second...

    If she says yes when you ask her out on a second date, that's a sign that she's into you. :-)
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