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He is absolutely cheating, and I'd insist that he stop at once... with no more.... ever. You might need some counseling, but I'd give this very little latitude. If he continues, I'd strongly consider...

There's nothing wrong with abstaining and not wanting to go all the way, however, to get a guy really hot and then stop it very frustrating and unfair. It would be the same if he did that to you and...

Laura,

Your quiz is not valid and not a good measure of anything The questions are not appropriate, and a lot of the answers are not represented.

Just an update....

I'll probably always have some caring for her, but I can't go back because she was too abusive and had some mental issues that I don't believe I could solve.

So, I just need...

PTAC:

Good points, and I don't mind loving the ex, but I don't want to be "in love" with her. For now, I feel that I really need time away from her with NC, which is working. Sure, I'd do many...

Wakeup

Thx for the comments. First of all, ALL women have issues (yes, us men do to). It's a matter of what issues will me major or show stoppers, and what ones are tolerable. The Ex/Now GF has no...

The new GF and I ended a relationship because of a serious issue that she had over many years that I couldn't solve then, so I left. She has solved that problem about 20 months ago, so that is behind...

Solarion,

My present GF and I are good friends, and we have always been. She knows everything and exactly how I feel, and prefers not to discuss it often, however, if she wants, I will, and she...

Good points...

Will take a LOT of work to resolve this.

Wakeup,

You make some very good points. My new GF (yes an old ex that I was with MUCH longer) knows about the old GF and the problems I'm going through. I don't dwell on it with her and never...

This works, but be careful that it's not too long, or he'll start to forget. I'm going to wing it, but for me (similar situation) I waited a month, and then I showed that I had changed, and slowly...

Alex,
You both screwed up, especially you AFTER you promised monogamy.

You both need to come clean on the past, and then sincerely forgive each other and put that behind you... forever, not to be...

Hi,

I posted before with a situation that has been bothering me. That thread has been closed, but still in need of some direction.
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There's nothing wrong with dating are your age, but you'll be under the control of your parents until you're of legal age. You can take is slow, see how it goes and could end up in a great...

Well,

Is this girl underaged or do the parents some super power control over her? If she is single, and on her own then she can date whom ever she pleases, regardless of what her parents say.
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Thunderstruck,

First, you're hardly "middle aged"..... you're still in the young crowd and having a relationship with an early 20s girl could work out fine, but you're approaching a generation...

Thx much... nice to know I'm doing something right. I find it pays off handsomely. She does appreciate it and reciprocates with a kiss, hug or her hand in my pants..... <g> Well worth it.

There are some great articles and advice out there on getting an ex GF back. There are some things you do and don't do. I did it I was totally locked out of her life.... she wouldn't acknowledge that...

This is almost unreal.

One should ALWAYS compliment their SO. No down side. You don't have to go overboard, but it's important to both.

I'd suspect women are more susceptible of appreciating...

TooLate,

Very easily, she got tired of waiting and your indecisions. You "may" be able to save her, with the right effort, especially if her new romance is relatively short. There are ways.

I...

Yes, let's hear it. I got an ex back twice and one was a real challenge (and a mistake).

Im posting to the OP, or anyone else that has a problem with a partner bringing up how the previous lovers were right in the middle of sex. I'm fortunate, and haven't had this problem.... when I've...

I'd favor some positive thoughts, not negative. Perhaps responding... nothing, and that's why I'm with you.

Crasher,

No, the text she sends it to tell me when she will be there so we can avoid each other. I don't believe she's interested in seeing me either. She simply text, "Im going to be there Tues"...

All,

New to forum and looking for some advise.

I just broke off a relationship with a wonderful girl that I've known for 8 years and seriously for 2 years. We had a pretty good relationship...