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    maybe he meant that in some profound metaphor lol

    maybe he meant that in some profound metaphor lol
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    lesbians don't want to date other lesbians...

    lesbians don't want to date other lesbians shorter than 5'4 just sayin' from experience.
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    dude, I live in the O.C. too! atomic ballroom,...

    dude, I live in the O.C. too!
    atomic ballroom, though it's highly competitive

    it's like a roosters den with hens
    unfortunately for me, I'm a definite homo but I'll be glad to offer advice
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    lol! apparently having old clothes is equated...

    lol! apparently having old clothes is equated with ugly lol

    but then women are picky on who they chose for dating.. :/ it's the shoes mate.

    bulk up to, this one guy barthelfitness on youtube is...
  5. invite her to an event or something where you're...

    invite her to an event or something where you're going with a bunch of people :) keep doing that until you get her to say yes and see if she'll bring a 'date' if she does she can introduce you to him
  6. Thread: Cheated

    by SmthJay
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    I cheated out of resentment towards my cold...

    I cheated out of resentment towards my cold distant ex girlfriend...
    I regret it the most because the girl I did it with was using me and I had used her

    so cheating is quite ugly; there are so...
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    she just sounds like some shallow b*** who turned...

    she just sounds like some shallow b*** who turned on croc tears.

    leave her be, plenty o' fish you know lol

    geez... she even had such a pretend nice line for you, I can see why you're hurt...
  8. I agree men pay for the convenience and for women...

    I agree men pay for the convenience and for women to have that 'professional' relationship.
    Sex workers are not only paid for sex, they are taken out on movie dates, dinner dates, grocery shopping,...
  9. Most chinese women are pretty rigid... (I am...

    Most chinese women are pretty rigid...

    (I am not racist, I'm also chinese)

    You seem to hold a deep responsibility for being with her I respect you for that.
    You're a very caring individual...
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    sexuality can be fluid yes, women know how to...

    sexuality can be fluid yes, women know how to navigate better than men in those areas

    could be competition

    she is also considered a 'pillow queen'
  11. I like being friends with you and I'm incredibly...

    I like being friends with you and I'm incredibly flattered but I am married and wholly committed to my husband. :)

    I do enjoy being friends and our friendship.
  12. meditation is complacent-contemplation thai box...

    meditation is complacent-contemplation
    thai box is an active expression in a martial art

    you're just bragging now lol

    give yourself some thinking space maybe then someone will pick up on you...
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    I agree.... Taylor Swift is half to blame for...

    I agree.... Taylor Swift is half to blame for this 'love story' bs.

    Real love is undefinable, giving and self-sacrificing...

    I want to ask people if they say that they love someone if they'd...
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    she had a reason to break off with you. if...

    she had a reason to break off with you. if something happened *behind closed doors* (something you're not telling us) and it
    influenced the breakup then I suggest you re-evaluate things.

    find...
  15. I left but should I return? Have I made a bad decision?

    I broke off with my girlfriend the other day after we had a tiff.

    I know you're thinking this is typical but that doesn't apply to each individual case

    We've been together for 3 years, july...
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    Unfortunately in societal history, marital status...

    Unfortunately in societal history, marital status is an indicator of place in society; in Japan if you are male, middle-aged and unmarried you'd quickly be an outcast (homeless)

    We can't reinvent...
  17. you can feel fulfilled not having a gf :) try...

    you can feel fulfilled not having a gf :)

    try meditation
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    I pretty much ditched my idealizations of love...

    I pretty much ditched my idealizations of love and relationships when I met my ex-girlfriend... it is so weird how that word is seen so negatively

    I'm not sure if it was for the better or the...
  19. Thread: Hello

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    Hi, I don't want to start up a new thread so I'll...

    Hi, I don't want to start up a new thread so I'll intro myself here.

    I'm Jay and I look forward to contributing to the site.

    **EDIT** I'm also really thankful that they post the actual messages...
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