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Seriously? Do you have a single friend, even a casual one, who wouldn't answer you if you just casually said 'So, any luck with that person you were into?'

Girl I work I used to be pretty good friends with, then we had a little falling out. We're still friends but not as close.

She was single for awhile, and I knew she was interested in some guy a...

I guess what I'm asking is, if almost everybody asks that, are they seeing something the two friends aren't?

If a guy and a girl are friends, and almost everyone they encounter either asks them if they are a couple or comment that they would make a good couple, does that have any bearing on if they actually...

How would you define the difference?

Can't really avoid hanging with her one-on-one when we work side by side several days a week.

Otherwise, that's good advice. Unfortunately it's pretty rare for me to meet any women my own age...

The age, however, is also the basis of most of the elements of the 'wall of logic' I was talking about.
I'm mellow, she's a crazy ball of energy.
She has a lot of friends her own age she hangs with...

Sigh...This isn't going to be something you want to hear...

With an age difference like that, at this point in your life, a lot of times (not neccesarily with you two, but I wouldn't be surprised)...

You sound justified in feeling this way. Can I ask how old you two are?

At your age, yes.

The quick alteration of affection levels seems to usually indicate that with young women....

Sounds very much like another guy has entered the picture. Sorry to say...

Dude, not to be a downer here, because I know what you're feeling and I'm a hopeless romantic myself, but you're moving way too fast here.

People change a lot in their 20's, change some in their...

Scary age difference. Like 20 years.
I'm usually attracted to women more my own age. This is actually the first time I've ever been seriously attracted to someone so much younger than me. ...

We've talked. She knows that I think she's brilliant in every way, but that I can't see it working as things are...

She's said she's not interested like that. I've got some years on her, and...

Limerence: Interesting. I wasn't familiar with that term.

There is, however, a definite difference between what I'm experiencing and how Limerence was described. She's such a sweet girl, and...

I don't actually do much in the way ot picturing how moments of my life with her. She's just a bright, funny and caring girl that it seems anybody's life would be better with her in it.
And I am a...

My initital thought is 'He's totally after your girl'...And he must be really into her (not just looking for a one night thing) or he wouldn't get into the complex mess of sharing a place together.
...

There's this girl....

I've built up a fragile little wall of logic, and it's the only thing keeping me from falling for her...

It's not some low-self esteem thing, it's real logic. And in...

After some very extensive questions from my friends, I FINALLY figured out what I was feeling towards her...
You know how sometimes you'll find out about some fantastic opportunity, but for whatever...

Some people can make that work.
In the case of this girl, she has some young 20's close-mindedness and naive attitudes about the world that I wouldn't be able to deal with in a relationship. I...

Girl I work with is a lot younger than me (she's in her early 20's, I'm in my early 40's).
Although we have a lot of the same interests and such, differences (mostly due to the age thing) would make...