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Thanks for the post Horseyguy. I'm glad to hear making big changes worked for you, even if it wasn't necessarily a direct result of the changes.

I think I miss being that much in love. When you...

I posted my tale of heartbreak here a while ago, and I've had time to think about a lot of things since. I want to share some of those thoughts so that I can get your views and so that maybe others...

She didn't feel strongly enough for you to make some effort at a mid-term, long distance thing, so I'd let her go.

You'll find someone new and you can put your heart and soul into that. Put your...

To say "you are not the right one for me" is a pretty strong statement. I get the impression that she wants it to work with you but that deep down she's not happy and she suspects she's never going...

I also lost someone I thought the world of, the most beautiful girl I'd ever met and someone who made me have butterflies when she entered the room. I felt like you do, but eventually it eases and...

Some 1990s Jerry Springer-style final thoughts on my thread:

I've spent the past year-and-a-bit trying to make sense of the most emotionally-traumatic period of my life. I fell in love with a...

I'm just one guy talking here, but if I was in a relationship with a girl who had feelings for a guy she works with, had kissed him and who was potentially hanging around with him over weekends away...

Delete her asap.

I posted my tale of heartbreak recently and, despite my ex being the only person I was ever really in love with, I deleted her from facebook and every IM program I had her listed...

Do you realize you have used words containing "fight" as many times as words containing "love" - 7 each? If you fight a lot then maybe, despite your feelings for one another, you're not right for...

I feel your pain. I'm kind of in that situation myself, although for me its easing. I have a ton of emails and online chats and I used to sit and read them and be transported back to that time when...

This guy sounds EXACTLY like a relative of mine. He was dating a girl for years, promising to marry her but taking her for granted and humiliating her in public. She eventually dumped him and he...

Thanks to all for the comments, I sincerely appreciate them. The last one by Borealis really got to me and I've had to think about it before I replied... It was as if, throughout the relationship,...

A lot of stuff happened. It started after we'd been dating a few months and her mother would call and insist she was home early. I don't think I ever saw her beyond midnight. She would come to my...

Thanks for the reply tjtigers. I get what you're saying about her mother, but I've just told the truth. Her dad, bros, sisters were all fine. The reason we broke up was because her mother...

I'm a bit weirded out about posting this, but I've been carrying these feelings about inside me for 14 months now. So here I am hoping that someone will help me gain a perspective that will mean...