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just dating still.

Seen eachother like 7/8 times. I don't know how serious she is about it

Hi there,

I have recently started seeing this girl (we are both 28).

We have been on several dates and she's been back to mine a few times and we get on really well, always have a good laugh
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Well, can't believe i'm here saying this, girl is driving me crazy.

So, 10 months ago now, my girlfriend (at the time) went alone to a work event i couldn't go to, she spoke to this guy for a...

I can always relate to this quote, cause it's what i've always said myself, now it's happened to me, and how our relationship was it's so difficult and harder than just saying, end it and that's it....

She's begging for a 2nd chance, she's asked me to move in with her, just saying all kind of crazy stuff that's ridiculous and things i am not even thinking too much into to be honest.

Yeah, it's...

Yeah, and i don't want to become that controlling guy, don't think i can even play that roll. Feel an idiot questioning who she's been with, what she's been up to, etc.

A thing i didn't mention is...

Also, do i tell her about sleeping with someone? i always feel honesty is the best policy to a succesful relationship.. but dont feel like i should have to now?

So my girlfrend and i was together for 15 months, over a month ago she kissed another man.

I couldn't forgive her but stayed with her for the time being, she was so sorry, constantly crying,...

I like your attitude and style..
but i add, i am not a 'pussy whipped bitch'.. I'm not thinking her as the 'perfect girl' either. If she was perfect i wouldn't be on this forum.

Ha, i am certainly not a pussy whipped bitch.

What i want to do is the right thing for myself, i've never been cheated on once (& i know ignorance is bliss) so don't know how to deal with it, i...

So you're saying if someone betrays a loved one for a kiss with someone else, the love for there partner may still be real and the kiss was just a genuine mistake?

My EX/girlfriend (?) tells me...

So, when/if you cheat on someone, does this mean you can possibly even really love them?

Not sex with a different person, just share a passionate kiss with someone else, is it possible to this,...

This is a brutal and asshole solution, but bitterly it's crossed my mind, but the feelings for her are stronger than i'd ever had for a girl, so don't think this is a possibility.

I'm 23, and she is 22, we've been together for a little over a year now!
This wasn't the usual drunken one off kiss, they were both talking, both sober, and he kissed her, and she kissed him back.
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Bringing it up hasn't gone so well.

She said she can't believe im saying this now after 4 months, and it's a big deal, and is now giving the silent treatment? :(

I just keep picturing situations back then, when she was betraying me.

But yeah, general jist here is that i obviously need to talk to her about it, right now it's affecting the way i feel about...

Wow, i'm not expert or know tons about relationships, like some people on here.

But what i will say is this, i think you're way too good for her, for you to show so much patience and love towards...

The main thing is how she just forgot about me back then and went off with someone else, she clearly saw him as the better person and chose him over me, and to me she's the best girl i've ever met,...

I try to tell myself that she's hurt me in the past, and that i deserve better, but then, do i? Can you be a cheat (which is what i guess she did) and change 4 years on?
I've always believed in the...

So a very long story short...

4 years ago, i meet a girl, love her to bits, was in my teens back then and very naive in dealing with relationships. However, me and this girl used to hang out, go...

I do, first of all, i'm 21 and come out of a long relationship last september.

However, since my girlfriend broke up with me, i started talking to another EX i had and met up with her until early...

So, in relation to the girl i'm 'seeing' who tells me she isn't ready for a proper relationship due to not being over he EX.

It's made me ask myself, am i over my ex?
She split up with me in...

Thought i'd post asking this, as it always gets me.

I am a big music fan and listen to music for hours a day, and i'm not sure if this is just me and why i relate music to my past relationship.
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Why did she tell me she liked me, and reminded me of how "good things are beteen us now".

I do feel like i've been mislead by things she's said to me. :s

I was in your exact (i mean EXACT) position, however i'm the guy and my girlfriend created her NYE without even considering involving me. (we're not together anymore).

I confronted her and just...