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I do agree. Still pisses me off though.

I am not sure! I guess its my ego that makes me think these things about her, its a little bruised and I am a little jealous of the fact she found someone she wanted to live with so quick after she...

No no, my friend has not met my kids, she hasnt met my ex, and I doubt very highly I will ever marry her. All the words relating to "spouse" were from my ex. I am quite happy to keep things distant...

My ex (see previous threads, I really dont want to rehash our past) sent me an email regarding my new girlfriend; she said she wants to see who I chose to be my spouse and she wants to be friendly...

I know, i know, I made a mistake in not giving her the letter when she asked for it. It was childish and I am trying to be the better person here but keep on allowing myself to get dragged in to her...

I agree, there is no sense in trying to figure out the mentally ill. But I do question her motives and intentions. Late last night I receive an email from her, with an email attatched I had sent...

Wakeup - even after I told her I okayed the letter she said forget it, she's gone a different route. I said ok. She is NOT allowing me to take my son a day early because she is being a really...

I ok'd the letter. I had to really think about it. And, of course, she sent a barrage of emails regarding my new gf (I dont really have one, I am not sure why she thinks I do) about how she is sure...

But she lives with a dude that has a job. I am not responsible for anything aside from legal obligation. SHe is projecting her shortcomings on me. What would YOU do?

I am split on what to do. She destroyed me....for many years. All it is, is a phone call. But she has never done anything for me and now brings our son into it. Nope. Punitive or not, I need to...

Yeah she can as our agreement stipulates certain times/days and, not thinking, I olnly added in long weekends with mondays being the holiday, not Fridays. As 11/11/11 is a holiday for me she can,...

I never use this word but I hate you for who you are and where you are going but love you for what you were many, many moons ago. I wish it was 2007 again.

Yes, I agree. It IS the right thing to do and it is just a phone call too. But what has she ever done for me? She called me an idiot when I said no AND told me I couldnt see my son a day earlier. ...

My ex, she of whom I have spent YEARS getting over the breakups, she of who lives with a new guy a month after meeting him, she the mother of my son, just called me (she hasnt called me in 2011, not...

Some are getters. Others are settlers. Do NOT be a settler. Be a getter. Move on.

RUN AWAY FROM HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN. Start new. New is always better.

When my ex dumped me and within weeks she was living with someone I had to really search my thoughts and eventually I realized it wasnt HER I was so devastated about, it was my bruised ego that she...

Its really hard on me; she is now making me feel bad about showing my son the attention he deserves that she cant give. And Cerby, you are right. She is all you say she is. I try to rise above. I...

My ex, whom we share a son with, sent me this email last night:

"I am losing him to you; he loves you but doesnt love me."

This was in reference to our son. Our relationship filled a vaccuum...

Well...I got what I figured was coming; the blow off. Late afternoon email about a sudden meeting tomorrow. Oh well. Cant say i didnt expect it nor am I upset about it. I didnt expect to bat...

I felt great joy that I actually asked someone for lunch (date, whatever). I got off the internet dating and met an actual person. I guess, whatever it may be, I got out of my own way.
I am quite...

We all know my story; I would like to ask advice on a new life.

As I struggle with my ex and its story, I met a woman on Wednesday that blew my mind in everyway. She was awesome in my eyes. Her...

Welll....she hasnt contacted me since Thursday when she said she'd let me know about Tuesday. If I dont hear from her on Monday I guess it wasnt meant to be.

Well, I did it! And I got a lunch date! I am actually quite surprised, we really do get what we want if we just ask!

Man I am excited!!!

Thanks! I just dont want to come across as creepy. But then again, I will propbably never see her again anyway, so what the worst that can happen?