My ex, she of whom I have spent YEARS getting over the breakups, she of who lives with a new guy a month after meeting him, she the mother of my son, just called me (she hasnt called me in 2011, not once...always text or email) and she is trying to insure her car (the one I gave her). She has been driving uninsured for 2 weeks now since our agreement started. She called because she need a letter of experience because she has never been insured on her own before and has always been on my policy. She texted and called from HIS phone as well!!!!!! Her insurance premiums will be sky high as she will be considered a new driver if I dont give the OK to the insurance company.
I told her no, I am not responsible for her insurance, I will not be giving anymore than I am obligated to and I told her to leave me alone.
Did I do the right thing? And if so, why has the guilt got a stranglehold on me? SHE brought this on herself!
After I said NO she said shes been driving with no insurance because I have been "conitnually trying to screw her over". I replied that she took me to court and when she asked for more $ in August I had to say no.
She then told me I was an idiot and that I could NOT have my son a day earlier this week like I requested (it was outside our agreement) and we will be meeting at our meeting place at the exact time and not a minute earlier.
I told her she was only hurting our son, not me, but OK. I also said when she wants to talk like adults I will be available. She told me I dont act like an adult nor think like one and to leave her alone. She contacted me....she ALWAYS contacts me. I dont get it.
Wow. I am very confused. What a f*cking child she is. And she hurt me so many times. Am I just a child too?
SHould I really be bailing her out AGAIN? She thinks I try to screw her over? I gave her homes, cars, phones, credit cards, love, cash....all I could and she still tries to make me the bad guy. And, since I have no one but this forum to talk to, I start to feel like crap...like maybe I should still be bailing her out. I dont know. I am torn up again.