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Ok, now a new problem arose.

We had a good long talk about this, about how I hurt her feelings with those two situations. And, before I even made these mistakes, she loved being close to me...

Well most of my relationships have lasted about 2 months or less, and for the woman I'm seeing currently it has been almost 3 months. We did push the relationship a tad bit fast I think, though...

Don't be worried, because she might blow up at you for being possessive.

Lately I've been thinking, and over thinking. I've always wondered, is there any purpose to having a significant other besides feeling that sense of emotional security, or for the purpose of marriage...

^lol.

Just have confidence, and work on your personality. Don't be too worried that you can't be a "cool" guy or "popular the ladies" man, because there are people out there for everybody.

I think your mom is right. Also it looks like he doesn't know what he wants in a relationship.

I can kind of tell that she does not want to be tied down. It's understandable, since she's 19, and most teenagers/early 20s people tend to want to play around more. It's hard and very rare for...

Have you ever communicated your problems/opinions to her at all during the one year you've been with her?

A healthy relationship requires good communication. And if she gets butt hurt when you...

I wish I had longer fingers...

And how do you manage to stimulate the G-spot for a consecutive period of time without getting carpal tunnel syndrome?

I read somewhere that meeting people at a bar is ideal for someone looking for a short-term relationship/fling/one night stand. Meeting people through activities/club/organization/school may be ideal...

I agree with redmagnum. Some guys actually want attention. Not saying he's an attention whore or anything, but yeah, your man probably just likes the other females' flirting as a boost in confidence.

Many guys are like that. They don't want to be friends with girls, they just want them.

PS: Was there alcohol involved?

I know a few girls that are like that, super flirty and sometimes touchy (in a playful way). Other guys play along too and it just seems like a harmless act...for them. But for me, if I knew the girl...

So this girl I've been seeing for a few months is a special person. She's a beautiful, affectionate girl who treats me nicely. She doesn't play any games because she's more mature than that.
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