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    She needs time. Being her support will keep her...

    She needs time. Being her support will keep her in your life without overstepping boundaries. She's going through a lot and her reaction to her experiences is only natural. Only time and the loving...
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    You don't owe ANYONE excuses or apologies. End of...

    You don't owe ANYONE excuses or apologies. End of story. You owe YOURSELF happiness.
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    You need to read the post on here titled "28 and...

    You need to read the post on here titled "28 and worried". It doesn't make any difference at all if you are married or not. And it also doesn't matter at all if your friend have kids either. Who...
  4. This is ridiculous. This posting isn't for real.

    This is ridiculous. This posting isn't for real.
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    What you are going through is completely natural....

    What you are going through is completely natural. It's a process. It will take time. You have to be patient and kind with yourself. You're never really alone. That's just an illusion. Keep studying...
  6. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a...

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a quiet person. Be yourself. Be who you are. However, if you are "quiet" in the sense that you avoid people because you are afraid to talk to them, you...
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    You could break the ice saying "Excuse me, can...

    You could break the ice saying "Excuse me, can you tell me what time it is?" After she answers, then say, "Thank you! Oh, hey, I think I recognize you! Didn't you go to such-and-such High School?"...
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    You're not a fool. Everyone makes mistakes. It's...

    You're not a fool. Everyone makes mistakes. It's only human. I agree you need some time out for you. Spend some time on yourself before even thinking of seeking out another relationship. Get some...
  9. Only you can answer that question. Only you know...

    Only you can answer that question. Only you know if it is worth it or even possible to rekindle the relationship. You'll have to give this some serious thought. You may want to discuss things with...
  10. If I were you I would just be myself and stop...

    If I were you I would just be myself and stop thinking in terms of "popular", "unpopular", "shy", etc. Forget about all those labels. Just be yourself and nice to others and that's really all there...
  11. Sounds like what you need to do is strengthen...

    Sounds like what you need to do is strengthen yourself internally before doing anything with this issue. I suggest some counseling. More than likely, at some point, the counselor will tell you you...
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    And another thing. Just because people are single...

    And another thing. Just because people are single at certain ages does not necessarily mean there is "something wrong with them". Some people simply choose to be single. Some have very high...
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    You're not dumb. Just be real careful in the...

    You're not dumb. Just be real careful in the future and try to be more mindful of the early warning signs that someone is not ready or appropriate for the kind of relationship you want. There are...
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    My advice is to not wonder about him at all....

    My advice is to not wonder about him at all. Close the door. He's not worth your time anymore. You have more important things to do. Like taking good care of yourself and enjoying life. Do your best...
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    This is obsessive stalking behavior. Just because...

    This is obsessive stalking behavior. Just because he makes an effort to be friends with your other friends DOES NOT MEAN you have to be friends with him. You can indeed "leave him in the dust" if he...
  16. Vashti, I agree. The ideal approach would need to...

    Vashti, I agree. The ideal approach would need to include the whole family in the process. I wasn't clear enough about my opinion in my former post. The therapy would have to be family-centered...
  17. I'd say you and your significant other could...

    I'd say you and your significant other could benefit from parenting skill classes and/or counseling along with some type of therapy for your kid. If you can only choose one of these approaches, I'd...
  18. regdenied, you are a bastion of common sense. I...

    regdenied, you are a bastion of common sense. I tend to want to be the "fix it" person but you make sense.
  19. I agree with both you two. I know it's her own...

    I agree with both you two. I know it's her own business but I care a lot about my sister -- she's my best friend. She's unhappy and nervous a lot. I think to myself, shouldn't I be doing or saying...
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    If your significant other is serious about...

    If your significant other is serious about proposing and you know it, and your anxiety is strong, it could help talking through your feelings with him. It is possible you are not ready for marriage...
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    I think your idea is the perfect thing to say....

    I think your idea is the perfect thing to say. Give it a try. Good luck to you!
  22. What would you say if this was your sister?

    Folks, I have a sister (Kristi) who confides in me about a disturbing situation she's involved in. She has been seeing a guy for approx. 8 years now. This guy was born in Greece and is a legal...
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    No worries

    The entire key in this matter is to simply not care what anyone else does. You have to work on your own sense of who you are and your own self worth. Your value is not determined by if you are...
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