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I've only gone on it to see if he's still active on it, I'm not checking out profiles or contacting anyone or interested in dating anyone else but you're right it is too soon and I probably should be...

I recently joined an online dating site and met a nice guy after quite a few dates with men who just weren't right. There was instant attraction and chemistry which seems to be mutual. We've been on...

Yeah you're right he is a dickhead. It's good to get other peoples perspectives on it, I mean obvioulsy I'm not perfect but I would never treat anyone like that. All I've done is love him, support...

yeah part of me thinks I have reached that stage where I'll never go back this time, I've never changed my number etc before and I'm not tempted to contact him. I just think if he'd at least have had...

Boisdevie - yes you are absolutely right I deserve better! Thanks

No I'm far from a psycho and pretty low maintenance as a female, and I'm a really laid back and accepting person (which is probably the problem) so I actually tolerate his behaviour. Everytime he...

I'm almost 38 and my bf is almost 39 both divorced, we don't live together but have been in a relationship for 3 years. It seems to follow the same cycle where everything is really good then every...

Yeah in hindsight it was clearly just sex. I haven't heard from him now for over 3 days and have accepted that I'm not going to! Last text he sent me was saying that I'm hot! I just don't get why he...

So I finished with my ex a few months ago some I had some issues from a previous relationship and needed to sort my head out. Got counselling and sorted myself out and still have feelings for my ex...

I posted on here a couple of months ago when I broke up with my ex. I finished it as I had some stuff from my previous relationship that I needed to work through, which I've done successfully with...

Thanks. I justy want to contact him but I know it's because I feel so emotional and all I'll do is make a fool of myself then feel even worse. I totally need to sort my head out!

Yeah I feel really emtional again today, can't stop crying or thinking about him. Guess I'm facing up to the fact that it's totally over and he isn't coming back and worse that it's all my fault.

thanks pisces25 you're absolutely right. It's horrible when you feel over emotional you just can't think clearly and lash out or say things you don't mean. And Im over analyzing everything at the...

Well I still don't think he would necessarily be thinking the break up was a good thing, but I think because I finished it and he's been hurt before he maybe just doesn't want to risk going there...

Yeah I saw my ex at work today and he was all happy and doing that I have totally moved on and I don't give a shit about you thing! Last contact was him texting saying it would be really good if we...

I spoke to him briefly on Monday then said I needed to go and he said oh don't be like that then he just said I don't know what to say so I said it's totally cool don't worry about it see you later...

Although I'm guessing that he probably phoned me on sunday night knowing I would call him back so he could ignore me. Quite pathetic really!

I was genuinely worried about him, as he tends to go on benders. And it was strange that he called me late on Sunday night from his work phone. I personally don't think 4 weeks is long especially...

Split up with bf around 4 weeks ago but want him back. Was doing quite well with the NC thing then I texted him on Friday asking to meet for a coffee this week. Didn't hear anything back then found...

Right there with you. For us it was a case of both been hurt before and bad timing, the chemostry everything else was so right. I'm also hoping that maybe one day.............

I also work with my ex and it's so tough. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and I've been doing no contact and avoiding the office he works in. But yesterday I had to go to his office for a meeting...

Yeah I broke no contact today because my ex sponsored me for a 10k run I'm doing so I texted him to say thanks. He responded asking how I was and I just sent a brief friendly text back and he sent...

I'm with you Fuchsia_Bee obvioulsy it's not the end of the world and I am getting on with my life but millions of couples split up every day after having affairs etc and get back together. So there's...

Does the no contact things actually work? Does it just take men longer to realise what they have lost? Do you still think about your ex?

Hi JennaBella I'm in a similar situation I broke up with my ex a couple of weeks ago, he was willing to talk things through but I kept texting pushing him until he said he just wanted to be friends....