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So I have been with my partner for two years next month.

My partner lives at the pub.
I'm not a person to tell someone what to do but when the pub is coming more of...

Hi all...

I just need some advice.. I don't want to jump the gun and think the worse .. But sometimes how can u not.


So my partner is pretty secretive with his phone . Only when he has...

I find I have a higher sex drive then my partner...

He only seems to do it when he wants it.
Is it a turn off for blokes that girls always want sex more?

I thought my partner would be...

okay, so i have been a pretty insecure person from the get go with my relationship. So my boyfriend lied to me about going out one night and i found a msg that put his foot into it. And his excuse...

i dont know i have never been like this before......


All i can think bout where the prob is from my past ..... being drilled to the ground etc,.....

Feels t hat im not worthy of anything...

this is the only problem.... what else could there be...?

I understand. Sorry i have been a pain in every ones ass.....

i suppose im just really upset...... that i never realised it was all me.....

well ppl keep on replying so .............. like yourself....

Rowen...: how are you trying to work on it?

you know what thank you......

whatever...........
Selfish i am ....? explain

Not getting mad....... Just hate how you think he's the angel and im the bad guy......

Yeh i have issues like everyone no one is perfect........

F**k You.

So what if i started a few threads ......... my first thread started on the 5th Dec........ free country the last time i checked....

What do you honestly think of me ...? Do you think all this is me......? that im jsut blaming him when its really me..... i just wanna know if its all me....

:upset:I suppose im just loosing hope....... that maybe im jsut kidding myself.......
I wanna believe he cares...... but when im the only one that seems to do anything and nothing in returns you...

yeh everything you said basilandtyme is exactly what i do...... I don't drive so don't gotta worry about those expenses....

I pay 255.00 p/w rent....

In the new year will be knuckly down ......

Affectionate men.... If they aren't u cannot force them can u.?

Yes so my time to shine..... I feel bit better already getting advice from diff ppl :)

AnErin I started this post on the 5th dec actually.

You know i can't help but answer LOL........

i suppose two years.. its not like when we first met.......... we have our lives to live without thinking of each other constantly hey.....?

I am struggling to save, My boyfriend want to move out, and im slowing the process down.....


What are easy ways to save.?


I need to save $6,000 by May 2014

he already told me if i don't pull up im gone. we've already had this conversation.

Ive tried to not contact him for a few hours and that was okay...... he says that i don't need to be in constant...

Thanks so much. That really helps and makes me think about things in a clearer perspective.........


Its hard... when you have done something for so long and trying now to make it better.... and...

yeh i work as a receptionist........

yeh i have time 4 days till my self ( but we are always in contact , maybe i gotta stop and wait for him to message me) i see him wednesdays, fridays,...

..... yeh sure i understand.........
We are great together when were having fun etc... we work so well together.

Its just then i go and F**k it up GRRRRR!....

really so maybe i should just let him go.......? he says he does love me..... but im up in the air thinking is he just saying that to keep me happy or is it real......... these days it just seems to...

im 30 now...... i just hope i will find happiness some day.

I need to find me again, my life all i have done is concentrate on men......... but i would like to feel like im something when im with...