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Hm, I guess you're right, I am wasting time and energy on something that's not going anywhere when I could be working on something that has a potential to turn into more than just nsa. That is what I...

I would love to, but I got tired of waiting for it to happen. >_< I'm not saying no to a relationship and if there's a chance for one, I'll happily connect my heart and my vee-jay.

Thank you to both, I'll try to keep it all in mind if I continue with this. I'm rather new in that area and I guess I still have some romantic notions, I'm aware that they're unhealthy, so I'll work...

Let me point out that I'm well aware that each individual person sets their own rules for this, but I'm not sure what to think atm. I'm in my 30s, not in a serious relationship and after four years...

I would also vote for neither. You have to work on yourself first and then look for someone to add to your life. The qualities you're looking for in a boyfriend are not exactly healthy, so despite...

You know, sometimes when we are in love we tend to not look at things rationally, so maybe the warning signs were there and his act was obvious, just not to you. Maybe you just saw what you wanted to...

I hope it won't take you long to get over loving him and realise what an a** he was. He left you because you lied to him about giving him money? Please. It sounds like he was just using you and the...

I agree with the others, his thoughts and feelings are probably confused right now, so just be there for him and support him for now. He needs time to heal and when he does, he'll appreciate that you...

I agree with summer. If this was said after a few dates, it's a rather weird thing to say. The spark might've turned into a fire that burnt down too quickly. Just wait a bit and don't even think of...

I hope you figure it out and manage to do things in a way that's best for you. I would just like to add that you shouldn't worry as much about how people around you will react, but make sure to...

I doubt he will want to get back together, his actions, albeit weird, seem pretty clear. He doesn't want to date you, he might be coming back because after a year of dating someone you generally miss...

I'd say back off a little, try not to obsess over it and give him and yourself some time to think things over. You do deserve better and you should look for it. It seems like he's not sure himself...

You sound like a very nice guy and some day some lady will be lucky to have you. But for now don't freak out about any new feelings that occur, or old feelings that do not, it's all a normal part of...

Hm, I hope you get some info on that girl soon. You're in no rush, I guess just give yourself time and your romantic feelings will come back. I can imagine you missing that part of yourself, but you...

It sounds like you identified the problem, then. When do you think you'll get a chance to talk to ex coworkers who might still be in touch with her? Can't you find her on facebook or something like...

Agree with the other two - you go half half and soon you'll be pulled back in. What does half half even mean? You have to cut her out, but you're obviously not strong enough to do that right now....

Give yourself time and do what feels right. Don't feel pressured to have sex because you're not getting any younger. Otherwise I agree with basilandthyme - ask her out, spend time with her and see if...

I have a feeling that like every fool dealing with a crush you're now hoping for answers like "maybe he likes you and he'll leave his gf for you". We're so blinded when we like someone. >_< The thing...

Meet her, you've got nothing to lose. You can't keep things up the way they are now, online relationships get old fast. It might turn out that you're not a good match in real life, but it's better to...

Well, I can tell you that I personally don't feel all that excited about dating until I feel a spark with someone. I have a problem with randomly going on dates and I just can't bring myself to do...

Nicely put, searock.

I agree with others, if he were really into you, he'd make time. Especially if he's feeling down, seeing you should make him feel better.

I'd say passion changes, but it's still there. It's not that same exciting feeling of butterflies in your stomach and just needing to have the person right then and there, but when you do get into...

What was the reason she gave you for the break up?

Because to me sex is important and I don't want to be in a relationship with a person I don't want to have sex with.