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There is a lesson I've learnt and witnessed first hand in life. I have yet to meet any couple who ended up having an unplanned baby regretting it. But I have met many people who wanted a planned baby...

Jen91 I guess we're both on the same boat aren't we? I agree with everything you've said and I couldn't not have said it any better myself. I just hope both of us, find peace sooner rather than...

Thank you devon for the nice response.

I've bolded 2 parts which I never thought about before but I realise that is one way of looking at it. I will do as you've suggested follow my heart for...

It's normal for someone to mourn months and even years later, so just be a bit patient with her. However if you get the feeling she will never love you to the same level if not more and you want...

Today I said goodbye to that special lady in my life because no matter how hard we would try certain things would not fall into place.

I am not here for advice as such because we've ultimately...

Doesn't the comment make sense?

All I'm asking is, if you have to split your thoughts into categories, what percentage of your time did they take up prior to your wedding/marriage.

...what do women think about the most?

I'm getting married and all I can think about is money, money and money, will I have enough to support her and a child if God blesses me with one. I know...

I disagree with the other posters, I'm religious, I think viriginity is very important and a man and woman should maintain it till they are married, but I realise in this day and age most people...

Animals are evolved animals and then you say what I've written is stupid? Lol.

In my opinion it does.

How many parents out there would like their son/daughter being in a relationship with someone who disccusses sex openly? If you and the OP think it's ok to discuss these...

I'm glad that people don't speak or have sex openly, it's the way it should be. Humans are above animals, we are not animals.

I have every post in this thread carefully trying to understand the way people feel and think. It;s very interesting because on one hand you've got experienced women who've given birth saying the OP...

Forget the cheating, you need to address his ridiculous attitude towards life and especially you. How dare someone bring up their ability to pull other girls with their gf/wife? It's so...

I think it's disgusting when a partner stops their other half from doing something they enjoy provided it is not harmful to them or the relationship. If he's using his own money to buy the cards,...

You know after readin some of the articles and comments in this thread I don't know whether I want to laugh or vomit.

Firstly if the figures are correct and even a small portion of the so called...

This is why 2 virgins marrying and making love to each other and only each other is such a beautiful thing, there are no comparisons, no jealousy and no discomfort knowing that your partner has been...

The route cause of this whole problem seems to be one girl who has slept with 2 mates. I'm not saying his treatment of you is right or wrong, but often when a girl goes out with a guy's best mate...

There is not a single sane man who thinks of any of his immediate family in that way. However what I think is correct for a lot of men, they want to find a woman who is like his mother in character...

Thank God you realised the righteous way to approach life, to keep yourself for your husband alone.

1. If YOU are religious and want to abstain for prohibited (religious) acts of sex, then you are...

Blum,

I have a genuine feeling from the way you have typed that deep down a part of you still wants him really badly and that more than his support, you want him. I may be wrong though.

As for...

You can cut off all the contact in the world you like, but at the end of the day if you're not going to stop yourself, or be strong enough to just overcome any desire to contact them, even that won't...

Do you think guys like the OP will ever change? Or are these the kinds of men who stay this way and single for life?

I wonder, can the OP fix his horrible attitude towards ladies, or is it too...

Kama, you're thinking is very weird. How is sleeping with 1 woman the same as sleeping with 100 women? It's completely different. I don't think any sane man would want to to be with a woman who's...

Perhaps you should drop the attitude you have of calling ugly people ugly? Yes it won't make them models, but those ugly people have a cleaner and more beautiful soul than you. To be frank I think...

You know Kama is strange, in fact he's quite unique, but very strange.

As to the original guy, welcome and enjoy the stay here.