Hi guys - I'm new to loveforum.net
I'm actually in a really awful situation at the moment and could do with some male advice.
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years. We haven't got a perfect relationship (but who has) but right now it's AWFUL. And it's all my fault. I'm too clingy and he can't handle it any more.
He said to me that if I don't change my ways he will have no choice but to break up with me, and that he isn't going to be nice to me about the situation because I've caused it and if he is nice to me then I won't change my ways. So he now wants me to take some space and time out to start to love myself again, after all you can't be in a loving relationship if you don't love yourself first, right?
However he doesn't think I'm capable of taking time out. He said he doesn't want to give me false hope that our relationship will be amazing in a few weeks... Because he thinks I will still be a clingy girlfriend.
He's very unhappy with me and I can tell that I'm upsetting him because I just can't leave him alone.
I suppose it's really good I can admit all of this - but I desperately need some advice (I want to prove my boyfriend wrong and be able to take time out).
I mean surely if he didn't want to be with me, he would of said by now? - this is my last chance
He will DEFINITELY be annoyed if I text him - but what if I didn't text him for a few days, just a few days of no contact, is that ok? Would he be annoyed that I didn't make an effort? Or would he be pleased I'm actually taking what he wants seriously.
Any advice will be much appreciated.
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Saz