Get away from her. ZERO contact so that you can get over one another and she can give her open heart and mind to her husband. Do you want her to be half in an arranged marriage and always pining and sad to be with you or do you love her enough to do the UNSELFISH thing and get out of her life so she can learn to love who her parents have chosen for her? I hope you're not the selfish type.
I really wonder why you people that have to marry who your parents choose for you get involved with people that you know one day you're going to have to leave... what a waste of emotional investment.
I think y'all read Romeo and Juliet and thought you'd check out what they went through... O.o
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion