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    I had no proof of her cheating, but I just knew it. I therefore told her that I was done with her, FOR EVER.
    Yet you went back and ****ed her again because you missed your plane?

    Whatever. I'll let other placate you but from where I'm sitting, none of what you're saying is consistant. "Who got emasculated in this story?" Was the question. The bottom line is: Who really cares? You certainly shouldn't.

    Next time don't miss your plane and just leave FOR EVER instead of coming back and getting a leg over after telling someone you broke up with them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by breathe123 View Post
    If what you did makes it easier to feel less hurt & move on quicker than good, if that is why you did it. What is your real life friends thoughts on this?
    They saw her pictures and they said that she was ugly.

    That's how I see her now actually. Especially when she's making a face. She just looks like a fake sneaky little monkey; and I'm like... wow... How in hell could I fall in love with such a creature?!

    But my friends don't really care. They said that it was just a 3 month relationship and that I was just doing their head in with all the details that I was sharing with them on that bitch lol.

    It's not about 3 months. It's about being true to yourself, whether it be 3 months or 3 years or a life time. I can't give her any excuse. There is nothing that I have done to her that could have justified her cheating on me.

    That's it but I don't really give a **** anymore actually. I'm just thinking that next time I will be so cautious concerning who's coming into my life and who should be out of it. It's not about ego. It's just about common sense. If you are ploting behind my back then you might as well get a life and get out of mine. I've got no time for you. No violence, no argument. I'll just ignore you. You and your low downlittle dirty life that you thought was the reason why I was with you. You can take everything back. That's my way of seeing things now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Yet you went back and ****ed her again because you missed your plane?

    Whatever. I'll let other placate you but from where I'm sitting, none of what you're saying is consistant. "Who got emasculated in this story?" Was the question. The bottom line is: Who really cares? You certainly shouldn't.

    Next time don't miss your plane and just leave FOR EVER instead of coming back and getting a leg over after telling someone you broke up with them.
    I don't understand why you keep trying to find her excuses. I gave her my heart and she ****ed others guys as if it was nothing. Do you move on from that by saying to yourself that ok I left... but then if you really loved me your first reaction would not have been to **** someone else but rather chase after me and prove me that you love me. Don't treat me as if I was just easily replaceable (after all the things that we had shared together/ she really looked happy. I just didn't understand). If your opinion of me is so low then say it to my face and I'll just **** off. That's not what I had signed up for in the beginning. It's just common sense.

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    Onwards and upwards Macc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by woody View Post
    Onwards and upwards Macc.
    I'd say "downwards, to the depths... away from the Superfluous" lol - as zarathoustra would say.

    Woody thanks for taking the time to send me cheerful texts since the beginning

    I've been thinking so much these days; realising so much stuff about life lol. I can't even sleep. I'm worn out.

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    I don't understand why you keep trying to find her excuses. I gave her my heart and she ****ed others guys as if it was nothing. Do you move on from that by saying to yourself that ok I left... but then if you really loved me your first reaction would not have been to **** someone else but rather chase after me and prove me that you love me. Don't treat me as if I was just easily replaceable (after all the things that we had shared together/ she really looked happy. I just didn't understand). If your opinion of me is so low then say it to my face and I'll just **** off. That's not what I had signed up for in the beginning. It's just common sense.
    Sorry, but I'm not trying to find her excuses. I just have issue with you breaking up with her and then going back to **** her when you missed you plane so I'm calling you out on your BS.

    "Chase after you and prove she loved you?" Dude she only knew you three months and she was doing another guy during that time. She doesn't love anyone but herself.

    To quote some song lyrics by Fleetwood Mac: "Players only love you when they're playing."

    Thats not what I signed u for in the beginning.
    Next time common sense should be that you don't get so involved emotionally before you even know who you're giving your emotions too. Live and learn.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Sorry, but I'm not trying to find her excuses. I just have issue with you breaking up with her and then going back to **** her when you missed you plane so I'm calling you out on your BS.

    "Chase after you and prove she loved you?" Dude she only knew you three months and she was doing another guy during that time. She doesn't love anyone but herself.

    To quote some song lyrics by Fleetwood Mac: "Players only love you when they're playing."

    Next time common sense should be that you don't get so involved emotionally before you even know who you're giving your emotions too. Live and learn.
    If she was just playing then why did she cry her eyes out for the next 3 or 4 months after I left, coming over to my country, offering me pretty much everything she had, introducing me to her parents and all that stuff... if that was the case then I don't think that any of that would have happened. You are probably comparing one of your meaningless 3 month relationship with mine but I garantee you that it was actually quite intense. We were together almost all the time.

    I checked out her facebook and found pictures of her with big puffy eyes from like 3 months after the breakup.

    And as for me talking about ****ing her when I missed my plane I am now saying things like that because that's how I think it shouldve been actually. But at the time I never did anything to her that wouldve been close to shagging. Never crossed my mind. Every single time I was making sure she was content. But she wasn't obviously.

    But anyway, SHE is the loser, whatever you might say, that doesn't take anything away from the fact that I was right the whole time, and that she is the bitch, and that she got a good spanking for that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Makkaway View Post
    If she was just playing then why did she cry her eyes out for the next 3 or 4 months after I left, coming over to my country, offering me pretty much everything she had, introducing me to her parents and all that stuff... if that was the case then I don't think that any of that would have happened. You are probably comparing one of your meaningless 3 month relationship with mine
    Nice try at trying to deflect your situation onto me. Sorry, but I'd not be so irresponsible to get involved like you did with someone I didn't even know.

    but I garantee you that it was actually quite intense.
    Yes, most are that are jumped into like you jumped into this one. Those "intense" ones usually flame out as quickly.
    We were together almost all the time.
    Yet she still had time to fvck the other guy? Wow.

    I checked out her facebook and found pictures of her with big puffy eyes from like 3 months after the breakup.
    I suspect that was because he other guy let her go shortly after you did. Or... she is allergic to pollon. lol

    And as for me talking about ****ing her when I missed my plane I am now saying things like that because that's how I think it shouldve been actually. But at the time I never did anything to her that wouldve been close to shagging.
    Again another lie. You're about as credible as I first thought you were which is "not very."

    But anyway, SHE is the loser, whatever you might say, that doesn't take anything away from the fact that I was right the whole time, and that she is the bitch, and that she got a good spanking for that
    Seems you both lost and you're still worried that somehow you were the one emasculated.

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    pfffft
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Nice try at trying to deflect your situation onto me. Sorry, but I'd not be so irresponsible to get involved like you did with someone I didn't even know.

    Yes, most are that are jumped into like you jumped into this one. Those "intense" ones usually flame out as quickly. Yet she still had time to fvck the other guy? Wow.

    I suspect that was because he other guy let her go shortly after you did. Or... she is allergic to pollon. lol

    Again another lie. You're about as credible as I first thought you were which is "not very."

    Seems you both lost and you're still worried that somehow you were the one emasculated.

    pfffft
    Wakeup: enjoy your life

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    You too. Please start by not changing events every time you're called out on an inconsistency in your tale... and then never jumping into a relationship the way you did in this "story."
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    You too. Please start by not changing events every time you're called out on an inconsistency in your tale... and then never jumping into a relationship the way you did in this "story."
    There is no inconsistencies and I can't reveal everything either, nor do I want to. And no worries wakeup I will NOT make the same mistake again and I'll get a medical check-up asap

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