My parents or my girlfriend?

[Emir68]

My parents hate my girlfriend because she's not my religion and not my race. (She's Mexican I am white.) I lived with her fir 3 months and all was good we were doing well and never had any problems, but I decided to come home to my parents to get there approval and blessing to be with her. They won't even look at her, they say she's not our race we don't want you with her. They refuse to let me go back to her, if I do they will disown me and never want to see my face. My mother said that she was ugly and I could do better.. But I love her personality and looks don't matter all that much to me. I'm 21 but have no idea what to do.. I really love her and want to be with her but my parents dislike her without knowing her at all! It makes no sense to me.

[TablesandChairs]

Your parents are arseholes.

[basilandthyme]

Yep - your parents are arseholes

[Wakeup]

but my parents dislike her without knowing her at all!

Well you are convinced you love her without even knowing her at all.

Three months is not enough time to know if you're compatible enough or even if she's just using you to try and get her green card.

I agree that your parents are arseholes for being such prejudicious twats. But you should calm your jets.