miscarriage problem.it wasn't mine...

[tabs]

I understand that in countries where medical isn't free, that it can cost a lot of money for surgeries etc. However, I wonder why she didn't ask you to go with her at all, and she only asked the ex to go. Do you and her ex not get along? Did she tell you about the miscarriage and this surgery she needed before she went, or after you saw her there?

no, totally no, i didnt even know something about her ex, she didnt told me about the surgery before, it is just the time that i stalked her in the hospital the time that i learned about it..

[melancholia]

Then you absolutely need to revisit this conversation with your girlfriend if you ever hope to move forward. Otherwise, you need to break up and start focusing on your own life and what makes you happy, so you can move on and find love with someone else in the future.

[chloex]

to be honest, her body is her business. that miscarriage wasn't anything to do with you so its none of your business. Who was the guy exactly? if it was the guy that knocked her up, then ask her why she felt more comfortable going with her ex than with you.