The interesting girl dilemma

[Marius]

So I met this girl about three months back at work. That day we talked and became good friends. A couple of days later I was ready to ask her out, when a close friend of mine told me that he had already been out on a couple of dates with her and was getting serious.

Being the supportive friend, I backed off and let him have his fun. However, very quickly I discovered myself in a strange situation. They used to talk about me regularly which I felt was a bit odd.

Well, about two months passed, and they broke up, because she met a guy better suited for her. She introduced me to him recently as 'the guy I told you about last night,' which again felt really odd.

So what's the deal with her, why does she keep talking about me.. haha

[melancholia]

You said you are good friends with this girl, so I assume she talks about you to other people in your life, just like anyone else would. If you want to date her, why are you just friends with her?

[Fuzzyfeeling]

Lol ,it sounds funny cause i kinda could relate to her actions hhhh ,i think she's using you as a competitive potential bf ,she thinks it makes her sound wanted and a bit hard-to-get to the guy she recently met. This could be just me ,i might be wrong ,but eitherway i think you should talk to her about it ,before it becomes simply unappropriate.

[Marius]

Good friends, but she doesn't meet me enough to be able to talk about me on a regular basis, plus last I spoke to her, she seemed to know more about me than I had told her.

Why don't I date her is because she jumped from one relationship to another. By the time I knew she had broken up with my friend she was already in a new relationship.

She is the type to play hard-to-get but her new bf is the son of a millionaire so I doubt he would care about competition really.