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Thread: He thought I Cheated on Him but I never Did..

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    He thought I Cheated on Him but I never Did..

    Me and my bf just broke up last Feb 16. We met on a dating site and weve been bf and gf for 7 months. We loved each other so much even if we never seen each other in person yet and i swear to God i always told him d truth and never lied to him and never even talked to another guy in d way that i talk to him. We had a lot in common and we are both attracted to each other. He is working in Qatar as a network engineer and I am in the Philippines pursuing my major in Info Tech. He is 34 and i am 23. We have a long distance relationship but we talk everyday thru google chat or viber while he is at work and while i am in school everytime we get a chance and we videochat everynight. He was always been a jealous type of guy and very straightforward and when he say he will do this, he will do it. We were supposed to meet March 19 until this bad thing happened. My other ex messaged me at February 16 and greeted me happy valentines day on Skype and he wanted to get bck with me. Ive been arguing with him explaining to him d reason y we broke up and that i am happy with my new bf and i love him so much. That was around 12am and ive been waiting for my beloved bf to get off work and i was exhausted and sleepy myself. Both google chat and skype windows were open on my phone and i accidentally sent a message meant for my ex to my love. I already typed almost 4 sentences before i even realized that i sent those messages to d wrong person. I rushed and tried to erase those individual messages on google chat but google chat dnt allow to erase individual messages. So i blocked my bf on google chat trying to do everything jst so he wont be able to read those messages searching hw to erase thse messages trying to contact customer service on google but it was too late. He messaged me on viber and all he said was "Have fun with him. Take care." My heart was beating so fast and i couldnt breathe and trembling trying to explain to him that those messages are meant for my ex and they mean nothing to me but he wont listen anymore. He blocked or erased me on viber and google. Ive been crying the whole night and didnt go to sleep praying that he would listen to my explanation that i never cheated on him and he was the only one that i want.

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    The message for my ex bf says " U always say ive been treating u as an ATM but i never care for your gifts. So fine, just go to the casino and enjoy." If you will read it as it is and wont consider why i was going to send this message to him, u will think that i was talking to him in a way with feelings and looks like ive been cheating and seeing him or smething. But if u would listen to my explanation that this message doesnt mean as its just typed bcoz he was trying to get bck with me and i told him that i already love someone else and explained to hm why we even broke up. I was telling him y we broke up, but my love jumped to a wrong conclusion and misunderstood everything and thought of me very wrongfully. I know it tore him apart bcoz weve been saving ourselves for each other for months and he felt lke he jst wasted his time with me thinking im just a slut. But he completely got it wrong. I love him so much but he wont listen anymore and he blocked me everywhere. Its march 29 nw and im still waiting for him. Wt should i do? I cnt seem to just forget about him. I cnt get him off my mind and ive been crying everynight. Pls help me with this pain.

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    Okay listen to me carefully, first of all take photos of the conversation between you and your ex after you do that block your ex on all social medias also call the man you love and tell him that he got the wrong idea your ex was trying to hit you up again but you kept refusing if he won't believe you send a picture of the screenshots if he still dosnt then if you really love and trust him give him the account details for whatever social media that your ex was messaging you on and let him read for himself.

    Tell him that you've blocked your ex on everything that there is no one except him and make him feel special again trust me when I hit likes you and talk to other men he will flip out its normal.

    All the best!!

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