So, here is my situation. I am a really confused 27 year old female. About two months ago, I started talking to this guy and had a kinda dirty texting relationship which was super fun. I have a very busy schedule between my work and social life, so I have to cancel a few times on meeting up with him. Regardless we were texting back and forth everyday for about a month. His cousin, who is a mutual friend of ours, was getting married in a month so I know I would meet up with him there. Then the one day, I texted him and never heard back. I didn't take it too personally and just assumed his wasn't feeling it anymore. Another two weeks went by and I had noticed that this guy started dating a girl I know. I had seen them tagged in pictures on Facebook and she seemed really happy. I didn't think much of it and just kinda shrugged it off. Went to the wedding, even said a quick "Hi' to him, and everything seemed good.
Then out of nowhere, two days ago, he messaged me back with a story that he had smashed his phone and had to get a replacement. And that he just figured out how to restore his contacts and that he wanted to continue our conversation and even wanted me to resend the racy pictures I had previously sent him because he lost our conversation. Then started texting me dirty things and dick pictures just like we hadn't stopped talking. I was really taken back by it, and when I asked him about his girlfriend, he was completely honest and upfront about it. So I told him that I was turned off by that, and that he probably shouldn't be messaging me. Then he said he understood but wants to still text about things other than sex. I kinda agreed that it would be okay, but still feel sleazy and confused. I mean I am totally still attracted to him, and he is a great guy but this is torture.
What does he want from me? Should I just completely cut off ties with him? Let me know what you think!