I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks now and I have fallen in love with him already. The problem is, I constantly keep wondering if he feels the same way... I know it's my problem, but I keep over-analyzing all the small things all the time.
But I want to let you know some prehistory first.
We met while we both were still in a relationship with other partners. Then after two weeks of living sort of a double life he broke up with his gf and I broke up with my bf, so we could be together.
During the first two weeks we would constantly message each other how much we miss each other and how we can't wait to see each other again and so on. He even sent me this long romantic text saying he thinks HE'S IN LOVE WITH ME. And we would dream together about how we will have our own company one day (we are both starting a course together) and how we would travel together and live together and so on...And he said once smth like " maybe your dad will have a son in law to watch basketball with him" after I told him nobody at home watches it with my dad...Well those two weeks were just absolutely amazingly romantic.
Then he broke up with his gf and it really hit him hard. He drove her home (diferent country) and said to me later that driving back he seriously considered to turn around and go back to her... And he became a little colder after that, and doesn't message me as much romantic things about missing me and stuff...
Though when we together it's great! I even met a bunch of his friends and he even mentioned moving in together a couple of times. He always shows affection in private AND in public. Always holds my hand, makes me food when I'm at his place and even when he's at my place and we still text each other a lot and he initiates those texts and so on...
And the sex is great and we both lough a lot and he asks questions about me, shows interest, listens to me and we always have great time together. Time just flies by when we are together...
But I can't get rid of the strange feeling that it's either too good to be truth or that somehow it got colder a little...
Is it possible that I am just over-analyzing? Maybe he just needs some more time to get over his ex? Because he was really devastated to hurt her so much...(that was a week ago).. Or is it possible that he is just slowly losing interest?
Maybe there are some signs to know how he really feels? Because I don't want to push him and ask such things so soon, but I am just afraid I might get hurt..