yes and no.
it is part of it
there are many kinds of dependance
the dependance of the people to its governmet
or the dependence upon the rigthiousness of the executive and legislative
or the dependence on the bakery to give you buns on sunday morning.
love is more than dependence on something
it is also trust and peace and the willing to sacrifice and the intention for the loved to be happy.
It is reoccuring fascination, like looking into the hearthfire.
It is many things.
I once said to a friend that love is somehow like the burning of a soul.
And after i said it i felt wise and hopelessly melodramatic and stupid at the same time
love is not only dependence. It is also the willingness to be dependant.
but i dont see where this discussion leads.
What do you want?
How exactly do you want to be after you have fixed yourself?
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.