Feeling of love

[1uke]

Is love dependance? (in every sub category and synonym)
In all things, In life.
From the dependance of my son on me. My dependance on my mother and brother and them on me. Dependance on a relationship between all of humanity. Thou dependance is never in equal measure. And wavers on the big seesaw of life.
Is love not a heightened version of dependance of helplessness, weakness, defencelessness, vulnerability, reliance on, need for, seeking support from, leaning on, clinging to.
Amongst: being with, contentment.
There are things we must adhere to in love like honesty. But I'm seeking the answer or closest answer to feeling. That feeling of europhoria that starts off like fear but unlike fear, the feeling of adrenaline stops in your heart instead of makes it to your brain.
IS LOVE DEPENDANCE.
Sorry I'm trying to fix myself. Thankyou very much for your time.

[pcmaster]

Think it depends to the state of the one who loves. As Osho said - when you love everything you are attached to nothing.
Also it depends how socially healthy is person. Not just the ones you love but also good friends work buddies and such. Basically as more people you have in your life as less you are attached to loved ones. But when you are lonely its hard not to love or be dependent. I seen some strong independent people but inside they are real softies.
Then again some people numb themselves and reset their emotions with alcohol for example. Others dont and stay in same state constantly feeling it all.

[Hooo!]

yes and no.
it is part of it

there are many kinds of dependance
the dependance of the people to its governmet
or the dependence upon the rigthiousness of the executive and legislative
or the dependence on the bakery to give you buns on sunday morning.

love is more than dependence on something
it is also trust and peace and the willing to sacrifice and the intention for the loved to be happy.
It is reoccuring fascination, like looking into the hearthfire.
It is many things.
I once said to a friend that love is somehow like the burning of a soul.
And after i said it i felt wise and hopelessly melodramatic and stupid at the same time
love is not only dependence. It is also the willingness to be dependant.

but i dont see where this discussion leads.
What do you want?
How exactly do you want to be after you have fixed yourself?