it doesnt matter how you do it.
get your experience
be authentic
learn how that impacts people.
Learn to be able to feely what other people and especially women feel (empathy)
have male energy.
the how is the thing that will come with practice and usually theres not much you can do wrong on the HOW level if your WHY level is ok.
Stop bothering at the how.
if you dont know how to do something that usually (not always tho) indicates that you dont know why or with which attitude or goal you are doing something.
If you knew why you want to do something and you know on what base attitude you want to do it and you can imagine goals that you are achieving by it usually the HOW is not that important anymore. it is skill and practive that comes along the way.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.