So my partner she broke up from her 5 years relationship to be with me. We’ve now been together for 3 years now with a baby boy that is now 1 years old. Our first year together was wonderful and glamours. I bought a proposal ring and was waiting to pop the question basically. But unfortunately due to my gambling addiction. I got us into financial hardship, sold the ring, put her under heaps of stress, financial debt with banks and her family aswell. She stood by my side regardless of rich and poor.
Recently we had to sell the house we are living aswell to repay the debts and consolidate a new life again.
There’s a 1 month period that we have to live at her mothers house due to the other properties settlement is not till then. I noticed her losing love for me and I don’t blame
Her. I have been the biggest asshole and inconsiderate guy aswell.
Using foul languages and abusive words whenever she ask me when can we ever repay the debts or such.
Anyways so she said she will give me the opportunity to chase her again like we are friends. She will try to move in to the new property with me. But we are in a friends relationship. No promises of it working but for the sake of our son and me begging for that opportunity. The past month I have been working really hard with getting back on track with life. Including working full time and a uber side job when I can to try and catch up with the last few years life I have wasted. Being motivated with all her families house chores and not sitting on the couch being lazy. Working extremely hard with my physical appearance by cycling everyday and dieting to lose weight to become the guy she once love. I know what I have done is not deserved to be forgiven. My question is to the woman’s out there what can I also do to show and respark this relationship. We had sex a week ago and she told me today the past wrong doings I have done has covered that deep/crazy love she once had for me. So we are in a agreement from today. As being friends and prove to her I am worthwhile. Please help me with ur advise and the chances of not losing her. I know I am the biggest idiot.