I finished him as there were problems, now hes gone 4eva?!

[Loner_In_Luv]

I had to finish my boyfriend as Ive been going through a 'really' hard time. I never told him the reason why I finished it, although I should have! I needed him around as Ive been so low and needed his love. He tried so hard to get back with me and then he gave up. Hes recently started seeing someone else, and I told him why I finished him and that I still love him. Hes told me to wait, but I cannot live with out him, as hes like the biggest part of my life. My friends say I should wait, but what worries me is if he falls for the new girlfriend?!?! What should I do?!

[whaywardj]

Did I miss something? Why was it you 'finished him' again?

[Fawn]

Well, I did a similar thing. I broke up with my bf/ex because there were to many problems.

You may care alot for him, but sometimes its best to be selfish and take time for yourself. If your feeling low or depressed, I think you should try to fix those problems first.

Its obvious he's already moved on by going with a another girl. You'd be wasting your time while you "wait for him." There is no waiting, its just a ploy to get you away from him, or to stop bothering him.

Its time for you to move on. Have a no-contact rule, so you don't feel the need to go back to him. Talking to him only causes more pain.

Edit: Please shorten your Location, its stretching the tables. lol.

[Tone]

You can't have your cake, and eat it too.

[shh!]

Maybe you only love him now because he is no longer available.

[Loner_In_Luv]

Well actually the reason why i finished him as I got raped. And i couldnt tell ne1. I know i should have but its harder than I thought.

[Tone]

So sorry to hear that >:[

[whaywardj]

Well, Loner, not to discount the veracity of what you're saying, but there've been a lot of "rape" stories on this board and, as often as not, as more and more has been disclosed, it's come to pass that what started out as a rape story turns out to be something a little less one-side than rape. What's confusing to me is why you WOULDN'T share the burden of such a trauma with him.

[MrDrum]

I don't think you deserve him.. time to move on.

[marcus23]

I don't think he deserve you. You probably don't know what you want.

[boobaa]

How should we know what should you do? Go figure.

[Junket]

I don't think I deserve him either...

In any case, you should get up and get out.

[blue_moon2]

sounds like you just broke up with him for the sake of it

[misombra]

yeah he's gone. that's what happens when you break up with someone.

[boobaa]

Hmm, well, boy isn't a girl, so a boy may come back if you ask him. But well, don't ask too much and make shure it is the last time