Confused Again, Signs or Playing?

[Lvn_MR2]

Im 19 and my ex partner is 18. We went out for two years and for one of them we lived together. We have since been apart for 8 months now. I visited her this past weekend and we had a awesom time. Shes only just started a relationship and from what she tells me its pretty shakey and pathetic. We met on good terms just so i could drop her qualification certificates off and that was ment to be it. Soon on we went out to dinner ( i paid of corse) and then caught a movie. That night she offered me to stay at her house which i did. the followig day she took off college just to spend the day with me right before exams. We went driving and went to look in a few shops. I ended up buying her jewelery and clothing before we went for a walk on the beach to buy ice creams. When i left she gve me a massive hug and kiss and kept hinting me with the words darl.

Would you think shes still keen? or just taking me for a ride? like we spent $400 together in one day ( all mine of corse ) and really enjoyed each other. Im just really confused and unsure what i should do with my next move.

Cheers

[clynn]

Next time don't spend a lot of money on her. See if it happens again.

[Ellynn]

Even though her relationship sounds shakey and pathetic......shes still w/ him. And you shouldn't have to go out and spend money on her to see if she likes you. Just cuz she gave you a hug doesn't mean anything. She could have been just thanking you by doing that. It would be a bit shallow not to at least give someone a hug who spends a large amount of money. Actually that would kinda freak me out if an ex did..but thats just me. I definately wouldnt expect it.
I know you wanted to by choice....but dinner and a movie would have been more then enough to treat her to. But considering you bought her gifts....I think that was a bit extreme....

Like Clynn said.....don't buy her anything next time and see what happens....

[Tone]

What does "darl" mean anyway?

And yeah, don't waste your money on some other dude's woman. She's not yours anymore.

[David D]

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[COAD]

People get spoiled very easily.... You spoiled her, and if you ever want to give her a good time again - its gonna cost you.