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    we broke up.. wat should i do?

    me and my girl, we got to know each other as friends for about a year and a half, and we started dating two months ago. she just got out of a relationship before i asked her out. the first month or so everything was pretty good, until she felt that i was moving too fast. i didnt kno wat to do , but i slowed down. after that, our relationship started to fail... she broke up with me the day before our 2month anniversary, saying that she didnt think our relationship could work out. my girl has been busy lately and stresed out because of school and family issues, and i try to help her out, but its not working. she said it wasnt workin out because theres no more passion in the relationship... we still talk on the phone sometimes and i still love her... how can i get her back?

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    There is nothing you can do to "get her back." You have to let her decide on her own. I know this may be hard for you to grasp, but the harder you try to get closer the farther away you will push her from you. The best thing you can do right now is start living as if you are single. Go hang out with your friends, talk to girls, etc. Maybe your gf will see how well you are adjusting without her and miss you.

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    How old are you? Move on already.
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    Move On. Life's too short.
    "Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis

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    You mentioned she just broke up before you asked her out, so that qualifies you as rebound relationship (worst prognosis relationships). Let her heal herself and for God sake let it be as destiny decides, continue with friendship and support but don't attach yourself too close or you'll be burnt like a butterfly.

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    Call her one last time and say " **** You I hate you, I gave you my heart, you lousy bich, this WILL bite you in the ass."

    Then forget about her.

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    You can't make someone change their decision about what they want ...all you can do is wait to see what will happen with you and her but I would not wait like a little puppy, then she will think that you can't do nothing without her...do what you have to do, live (life is short) if you are meant to be together then one days you will meet again...

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