Sorry Masta but when a girl your dating says she needs more space and starts seeing her ex, that’s pretty freaken bad man. I think you might have made the classic mistake that all of us guys have made before and that is to be too into a girl before she is really into you. Doesn’t matter now though, now you have to be a man again and start playing the field.
She said to you, “I need space and will not see you for 5 days” honestly man that is total bullshit. If I were you I would be totally freaken pissed by that. In my view there is only one thing that you can do and that is to start going out with your friends and start hitting on other chicks.
Why? Because she thinks in her mind that you are totally hers and she is trying to put you on the back burner like a pot of hot water so she can have her cup of tea whenever she wants. Your like a steak dinner that she ordered too much of and now she is trying to put you in the fridge while she looks and flirts with some kind of new flavored desert. Oh she might not have any desert but she thinks your ass is gona just stay in the fridge while she keeps looking at the menu. **** that shit.
You need to all of the sudden say, you know what, I’m getting out of this fridge and having me some fun. The point is that you can’t let her try to stick you in a closet like she owns you while she herself runs around and talks to ex boyfriends and crap. You have to put a sense of need in her like you might find someone else. You need to show her that while you like her a lot, you are not totally infatuated with her and she is not the owner of your heart and soul. Even if she is, right now you have to put it back in your pocket and treat her like a regular girl in a way.