A very serious Sexual Disorder problem! PLease HELP!!

[johnkim]

Hi guys I just discovered i have this crazy sexual problem.

I'm a male and I have a strong sex drive. BUT, whenever it comes to the female that I'm interested to have a relationship with, I lost that drive!!

I don't get it! When i'm with the girl i love, I can't think of her sexually!! There were few girls in the past i've infatuated with and it felt the same.

But when it comes down to other girls I have no feeling of and they are quite attractive, I'd really want to bang them.


I don't f**King get this. The girl i'm with now is really attractive, and same with other girls i've infatuated.

PLEASE HELP ME because this is frustrating!

[NeoSeminole]

strong sex drive my ass!

[xwfuro]

so are you saying.. you cannot get an erection ? Otherwise wait a while? There is no rush to have sex especially if your in love, eventually i think you will get more of a sex drive, could just be your nerves saying:

"I really like this girl, and there a more questions than just...sex."

[johnkim]

"I really like this girl, and there a more questions than just...sex."

This quote is exactly what I've been thinking!


When I'm single without anyone that I love at the momoment, I always think of sex everyday(masturbation *cough* *cough*). But whenever I'm in love, those kind of drive decreases.

For the exact problem, I wasn't having real sex with my gf, we were just doing cybersex. I could get an instant erection but I just couldn't concentrate because i feel very happy. She was playing with her boobs but boos don't really turn me on. She couldn't reach down there because she was having a period.

I think my mental state when I'm with this girl is different than the mental state when I want to have sex with a HOT woman. I just feel happy to see her face.

Now when i think of these two scenarios, I feel really bad:

1. Put a woman I want to have sex with (I have few girls in my mind) on my bed and who is willing to have sex with me. Result: I WILL f*ck her immediately! Heck I even thought of orgy with all those girls.

2. Put my gf on my bed and willing to have sex with me. Result: Probably will talk to her and just hugs and kisses.

Maybe it's too early because we've been dating for only 1 month... I dont have a strong urge to have sex with her now, and this bothers me alot. It's not because she's not attractive to me, I only go out with girl that is attractive to me.

ahh please help me! I don't want a platonic relationship!!!

[letan]

maybe promiscous sex is just more exciting for you

[misombra]

or maybe you're gay.

[King Zarathu]

Misombra, madame...be a dear, and shut the **** up.

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Johnkim, I have the exact same problem you have. I don't think of those girls sexually either. In fact, I only start thinking of them sexually when I'm done and over with. It's really weird, I know.

On the other hand, I don't really worry about it.

[johnkim]

or maybe you're gay.

I don't think I'm gay.

I'm really a sexual person because I fell in love with females body since a really young age. At around age of three and four I used to sleep with my mama so I love to reach to play her breasts. Called me perverted. At age of five I found some softcore films in my parents closet and enjoyed watching it. I was so daring at age of 6 that I touched an adult female's ass intentionally and acted like nothing has happened. At age of 9 I found some hardcore videos although at the same I didn't really know about the penis and vagina so I was telling myself :" why would they kiss their penis? Playing with the boobs is much better." Then at age of 10 i got internet access and began to search for playboy stuffs. At age 12, I was already watching hardcore, anal, cum on the face kind of porn. And you can make up the rest of the story.

[johnkim]

Misombra, madame...be a dear, and shut the **** up.

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Johnkim, I have the exact same problem you have. I don't think of those girls sexually either. In fact, I only start thinking of them sexually when I'm done and over with. It's really weird, I know.

On the other hand, I don't really worry about it.

does that mean I'm doomed:S I really want to have sex with her though...

[misombra]

Misombra, madame...be a dear, and shut the **** up.

no.
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[King Zarathu]

does that mean I'm doomed:S I really want to have sex with her though...

Well, mine isn't that severe. With me, I just don't think about her when I masturbate, I don't think about ****ing her from time to time, I just think it'd be nice to have sex with her and that's it. I don't think much about it.... I can still get hard and everything, though.

no.

::shoves cock in your mouth::

Done.

[misombra]

go put your little peepee in your glory hole. lol

[vashti]

This sounds like performance anxiety or a madonna/whore complex.

[misombra]

maybe you're addicted to porn?

[vashti]

maybe you're addicted to porn?

Yeah, that would be bad.