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    Any advice on how to talk less?

    I tend to speak too much. I'm not bad at it, but that's probably what the problem stemmed from. The issue here is that I am silent enough during conversation, but when feedback is requested I tend to speak too much.

    I notice that girls don't run into this problem so much. Why? Am I incorrect?

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    Lots of men talk too much. Have you tried answering the question being asked and then offerring up one of your own?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Drew_Smith View Post
    I tend to speak too much.
    You speak to much and you want advice? ok...here you go...it goes like this...shut the **** up. I think that should work.

    anyways, I thought girls like guys that keep converstions going?
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    Yup.
    Listen more.
    ..the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except the best ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Lots of men talk too much. Have you tried answering the question being asked and then offerring up one of your own?
    I am not trying to start a debate, but there is only one guy (an ex friend) that talks a lot. I know I can talk a lot, but its more when I am talking about something I know and/or I get into what I am talking about. But besides that me mouth stays closed.





    Drew_Smith - Like OV said, just don't talk as much. Practice saying things to the point and not going on about them. Most things, especially for guys can be said in one sentence or less.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great OV!!! View Post

    anyways, I thought girls like guys that keep converstions going?

    We do. Just be careful to care as much about what she has to say as what you want to say.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Ask questions. Listen to her response. Ask a follow-up question. Repeat if necessary.

    That will keep your mouth quiet People love to talk about themselves so if you keep the questions going and show interest, you will never have to talk again!

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    i like what she said better...

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    i like what she said better...

    [IMG]http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y181/toastress/child-shut_the_****_up.jpg[/IMG]
    adorable....................

    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    We do. Just be careful to care as much about what she has to say as what you want to say.
    I know...I know...
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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    i like what she said better...

    [IMG]http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y181/toastress/child-shut_the_****_up.jpg[/IMG]

    I'd like to see a celebrity death match between this little girl and David12.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    I'd like to see a celebrity death match between this little girl and David12.
    I put 100 on this girl and 50 on David12.

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    who's david12?
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