My relationship with this guy changed when I asked about our relationship . I stopped talking to him ...he asked me why? he asked if I was upset ? I told him he knew why and that I was hurt he said his life was a mess....blah blah.
He then made huge efforts to stay in my life did lots of nice things etc
I decided despite the fact he was confused he was a good person and worth keeping as a friends.
He avoided talking about what happened. We stopped dating. He initiated all contact.
Since then he had contacted me less each week. Now mostly by IM's and emails.
I figured his actions were bigger than words and that he was using me wanted
to remain in contact as a close and then didn't make the effort to do so.
Today I told him his actions were for the best .
I got an immediate email asking how I was and what actions and why for the best? How do I respond to that? I know he is toying he must know what actions. I hate these games. But do care for him as a person. I won't date him till he figures out what he wants and am already moving on and going out. But... he seems really good at throwing the ball in my court so to speak. Do you think this is intentional or could he be genuinely confused. I really need help with a response because I want to be honest and calm but his double talk really bothers me.