I tend to speak too much. I'm not bad at it, but that's probably what the problem stemmed from. The issue here is that I am silent enough during conversation, but when feedback is requested I tend to speak too much.
I notice that girls don't run into this problem so much. Why? Am I incorrect?
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13-01-07, 02:28 PM #1
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Any advice on how to talk less?
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13-01-07, 02:34 PM #2
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Lots of men talk too much. Have you tried answering the question being asked and then offerring up one of your own?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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You speak to much and you want advice? ok...here you go...it goes like this...shut the **** up. I think that should work.
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13-01-07, 05:15 PM #4
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Yup.
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I am not trying to start a debate, but there is only one guy (an ex friend) that talks a lot. I know I can talk a lot, but its more when I am talking about something I know and/or I get into what I am talking about. But besides that me mouth stays closed. Originally Posted by vashti
Drew_Smith - Like OV said, just don't talk as much. Practice saying things to the point and not going on about them. Most things, especially for guys can be said in one sentence or less.
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14-01-07, 12:43 AM #6
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Originally Posted by The Great OV!!!
We do. Just be careful to care as much about what she has to say as what you want to say.Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Ask questions. Listen to her response. Ask a follow-up question. Repeat if necessary.
That will keep your mouth quiet
People love to talk about themselves so if you keep the questions going and show interest, you will never have to talk again!
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14-01-07, 11:20 AM #8
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i like what she said better...
[IMG]http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y181/toastress/child-shut_the_****_up.jpg[/IMG]baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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adorable.................... Originally Posted by misombra
I know...I know... Originally Posted by vashti
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14-01-07, 12:43 PM #10
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Originally Posted by misombra
I'd like to see a celebrity death match between this little girl and David12.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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I put 100 on this girl and 50 on David12. Originally Posted by vashti
I'd like to see a celebrity death match between this little girl and David12.
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14-01-07, 01:18 PM #12
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who's david12?
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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