Hes got a girlfriend but.....

[ThatFire1908]

Sounds like sexual harrassment to me

[The Great OV!!!]

He sounds like me. Here's how you tell if he just wants a cheap screw or if he's really interested. When you're working together does he go out of his way to help? Like suppose you have something heavy that needs lifting. Will he swat your hand away and haul it himself? Does he volunteer himself to do all the nasty jobs in your stead, but otherwise takes turns with coworkers?

Doesn't matter, some guys will acutally do all that for a cheap screw.

At work there is a guy who is rather flirty with me, sends out signals and such, which confuses me!

He slaps my arse, has grabbed my arse, joked about with me, been quite sexually suggestive with me

I don't know about other people but personally that is not being flirty, that is straight up sexual harrassment.

Im a generally a flirty girl myself and didnt really see the harm in it, i do quite like the guy but knowing he is back with his girlfriend im backing away. I do not want to get involved with an involved guy!

Yet he is still quite flirty with me still, just a bit confused with him.

Man, you girls seriously have no care and shame for a dudes past partners? damn, all ditzy about it. All I heard was "he ****s other chicks back and forth but I dont care! he is a nice guy" ...that is so freaking wierd to me!

Yeah, he just wants to poke you.
With his dick.
Did you get that? Or did I lose you at "with his dick"?

LoL

[Junket]

I don't think that it is a question of whether or not she *could* do it. It is a more that he *wants* to do it for you. It is a matter of chivalry, and I agree that it is a huge turn-on.

One of the most "chivalrous" things I probably did for Amy was when she was the team lead in Pensacola, we had this supervisor who was so sexist, but in a way he probably didn't realize it. He was trying to be chivalrous by constantly giving us easy, menial tasks because we had so many girls on the team. Shit he even said it too "I figured with so many young ladies on your team, I'd have you guys paint a house." The work bothered me, but not in the same way it bothered my female compatriots, and Ames especially.

She told me she had given up on talking to him most because she was so pissed off at him, so I stepped up and took the man aside.

He tried, once to get us something more challenging, but that lasted about a day and we right back where we started. The next day "Hey, can I get you two strong guys to help me with the roof?", I looked over at Ames and watched her just walk away disgust and frustration. "Uh, no Tony, I'm gonna stick down here with the rest of my team, ask Kenda though, she's worked on roofs before."

I know my situation(s) differ from most people's. But just puttin' it out there, that there's other less obvious ways to be "chivalrous" than lifting a heavy box.