men feeling emotions? i think not

[anachronistic]

my penis weeps when I get burnt with ghonorrea. How's that for love?

There's a way to get rid of ghonorrea, if you really want to.

Rub your penis in cow shit-- I know you won't believe this at first, but try it! It really works!






dumbass.

[Charlie Boy]

Does that also work for full blown AIDs?

[anachronistic]

Does that also work for full blown AIDs?

No. There is no cure for aids.

[Mouser]

Does that also work for full blown AIDs?

Yes, but unfortunately for you, not for brain tumors.

[Charlie Boy]

If I have a brain tumour then I hope that you are the saw that will cut through my skull and heal me without giving me permanent brain damage. Be careful of my fluids because remember I have full blown AIDS, so be safe ok hon? Thanks for not being prejudiced Mouser xx. *hugs*

[and_for_what]

I feel no emotions as such. I don't feel happy/sad, agressive, motivated, angry, loving... anything.

It's cool in a way, if I had some way in which to use this "power".. but it actually just causes problems at the moment?

This goes along with my total lack of sex-drive, too, and quantitatively low testosterone (and other hormonal abnormalities). I expect that has something to do with my being non-emotional.

[Love&Pain]

Lostnotfound, sometimes the best way to deal with YOUR situation is to step outside of it and FEEL the pain of others. My pain--and my love, and my emotions, and my heart, is something I want to share with you. I'm a man. And, when you read what I'm going to say, I hope you'll forget about your idea that "men" don't have emotions. Whatever's happening with your guy, is with HIM.

Some 20 years ago, I met a hustler on the bus. Know what I mean by "hustler"? A woman who...let's just say, hustled.

I spent 9 months with her and her children, visiting, taking them to the zoo, outings, etc. During that time, I determined that I would get her out of that "profession."

And during that time, much to my surprise, I feel deeply in love with her. But I couldn't tell her--or was too afraid to, because she was so wild. She was a free spirit.

There was one night that she offered herself. It was like a dance, and it almost happened. But, I had to back up, because my "mission" was to get her out of "the life," as it was called by some. So, we never "did it."

After 9 months, I got dog tired, and I split (left).

Some years passed, and I got a call from someone saying she was trying to contact me. I told them to give her my number.

That night, she called me, and told me that she'd gotten out of that life. And she thanked me. I cried. Then her daughter called me later that night, and she thanked me. And I cried until my stomach hurt. Cried for joy.

I also cried because she told me she was getting married. And I was married. Nothing I could do.

End of story?

No.

A full 17 years passed, and guess what? I ran into her by accident months ago. And I been going out of my mind, almost. It's been since September, and I'm only NOW getting to the point where I can go 2 days without obsessing over her; without worrying about her; without wanting her; without dreaming dreamsjj.

And there is nothing I can do. Because I live in a monogamous society that would describe a double-marriage as "sin."

I've been out with her twice. Once for 5 hours. We went to the theatre, and then she wanted to go shopping.

In that outing, she reaffirmed for me that I was THE one who turned her around. She said to me,

"You know how sometimes people talk and talk and talk, and it goes in one ear and out the other? Well, when you talked to me, it went in one ear, and then down into my heart."

SHIT!!! I started crying, right there in front of her, as we drank the ONLY martini I ever drank in my life. I don't drink. But I drank for her.

If you want to talk about men having "no" emotions, then hang around a little longer, and you'll change your mind.

I can barely think. I can't have sex with her, because I honor her too much. She's an angel. You don't have sex with an angel (well, I know SOME who would!!). It's who I am. I only see her as a loving mate.

I have to hope and pray that, in the next life, after death, we'll be together. Until then, I suffer daily.

Maybe younger men these days don't have emotions, I don't know. Some of them certainly ACT like they don't!!

But I certainly have emotions. And I wish I didn't. I'd rather be beat with a hammer then to feel SO CLOSE to someone, yet so far.

At my age, I shouldn't even be at a forum like this. But that's how messed up I am inside.

I was doing okay the last 4 days. Then I crashed again this morning.

The society I live in (America) would even label my love for her as "cheating," even though I haven't done a single thing. They'd say that I had "emotionally abandoned" my current wife of 17 years.

It's bullshit. I love my wife. And I love "Laura" (fake name).

I have NOTHING against homosexuals, and don't really care what they do. But I find it astonishing that a society will pass laws (in some states) allowing homosexual unions, yet frown on polygyny.

This society would tell me that you "can't" love two women, and that if you do, you're just a pig. Really!!!???

I didn't touch that woman 20 years ago, and I didn't touch her since we've gone out to EAT FOOD and WINDOW SHOP. I want her as my "other" wife.

Naturally, she has refused. My current wife AIN'T happy with the idea [I hide nothing], though she says, "If you married her, I'd stay."

The other one? No comment.

I suffer. I sit to read something, and have to put the magazine down. I go to eat, and then don't.

Do not believe that men don't have emotions. Sometimes I sit and just cry.

I fit in NO category. I don't cheat. I don't have affairs. I can't go down to the local bar and brag about my exploits with this woman, because no such exploits ever existed, and don't exist now.

I'm a freak in a society that claims to know what "morals" are (when it's convenient, such as when a politician wants to bash another one).

I have to go the rest of my life, possibly, without her, unless some miracle of some type takes place. I'm too strong to have an affair. I"m too strong to be lured by her or anyone into an affair.

It's a BITCH being strong!! It's a natural bitch!!

I've talked to so many people about this that I ran out. That's why I'm here.

If I were weaker, I'd kill myself. But suicide ain't never been appealing to me. And it will remain that way--NOT an option.

So, I suffer. My emotions are overflowing. My heart is overflowing with love for both these women. I have NO other desire for any other woman AT ALL. Just these two. That's it.

Out of love for my current wife, if she decided not to go along with a polygynous relationship, I would suffer and not do it. This is a delimma.

Anyway, not trying to diminish your very REAL problem. But, as I said, sometimes it's best to get outside of yourself.

Cry for ME, please. Turn it around in your mind what I"m going through. And please believe it!!

And all you "pure" women out there who may now wish to call me a "cheater," the only thing I have to say to you is that you're brainwashed, living in a society where PEOPLE ARE HAVING MORE THAN ONE WOMAN ANYWAY.

Nobody has ever stopped that!! Polygynists offer a way to DO IT RIGHT, and up front, in the open.

Most of you women KNOW that MANY men in America CHEAT. Go find the statistics. Yet you would frown up on a man who would NOT cheat--no matter what--but who would, rather, take on another woman ONLY if all parties agreed, and ONLY properly in a spiritual or religious marriage.

Monogamy is a scourge. And my heart aches.

[TDurden]

Nobody's brainwashed here buddy. There are guys out there who cheat and they're what we call narcissistic assholes. Then there's the rest of us who don't cheat and can remain in a relationship with one woman and feel completely satisfied in every way.

It's unfortunate that you're in the situation you're in, but don't pretend like it's the norm and that the rest of us are just denying it.

[LostNotFound]

Yes. You need to learn to be more independent or you will alienate him.

before i met him i was independent i had control of everything. since i met him he is my life i can't do anything without him. if this is a weakness then i am weak. i don't want to alienate him but i think that if im crying down the phone because i miss him he should at least be comforting me in some way. an i think i am a bit to attatched to him.. and maybe he's not as attatched as he says. i don't know. i really just miss him. maybe it's time for me to loosen the grip and maybe abscene will make the heart grow fonder?

and for Love and in pain i don't think you can love two people like that in the same way. your situation in quite unique and i think you should do what your heart tells you to because you are not happy and remaining this way isn't going to make you happy.

[Love&Pain]

To you your life, my man. And to me mine.

STATISTIC: About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage ("Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn)

Well, I am very aware that people, particularly in the West, think in either/or terms.

Why is the issue "complete" satisfaction? And what does "complete satisfaction" mean? Do you know? And, does that matter?

Your "completion," for you, rests in one wife. That's cool--for you. Personally, the issue of "complete" or not "complete" is not the issue. I'm happy and satisfied with my current wife of 17 years. And I want another one.

In your limited way of thinking [we live in a Christian society where even atheists, though they don't know it, are impacted by CHRISTIAN thought], you'd probably think that there was something wrong with a person who has the ability to love more than one woman.

In your mind, if a person loves, and wants, more than one woman, then he's not satisfied with his main one; that it indicates that he's "not really happy" with the one he has. How ridiculous.

I know personally 3 friends of mine, including one family member, who have been married successfully to 3 women, and for DECADES. It's a way of life that you, obviously, are not familiar with, because you only believe that a monogamous relationship is legitimate.

It's just ignorance of reality, that's all. Monogamy has never worked.

On another note, I'm not PRETENDING anything. The FACT is that MOST men in America are NOT monogamous. You, sir, are in a minority, quite frankly. You can live in your dream world and believe, if you wish, that your mongamous relationship is the norm. It ain't.

Incidentally, I'm done with this exchange. I been around too long to debate about stuff I KNOW is the case. The rest of you, if you wish, can carry on the discussion.

I shot my wad--got this off of my chest, for today--and I'm done. Good luck in your monogamous relationship. I wish you the best!

[Love&Pain]

To LostNotFound:

Thanks for your comments. God exists. I can survive. Life has both pain and happiness. I'll survive. And so will you. :-)

"before i met him i was independent i had control of everything. since i met him he is my life i can't do anything without him. if this is a weakness then i am weak. i don't want to alienate him but i think that if im crying down the phone because i miss him he should at least be comforting me in some way. an i think i am a bit to attatched to him.. and maybe he's not as attatched as he says. i don't know. i really just miss him. maybe it's time for me to loosen the grip and maybe abscene will make the heart grow fonder?"

Worship ONE being: God. That's my answer.

[LostNotFound]

dude you talking to me? im female lol

[LostNotFound]

i don't worship him. i just can't see happiness without him. and i do pray. i pray i can be with him.

[Junket]

STATISTIC: About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage ("Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn)

Ahem: STATISTIC: About 90% of the love forum community doesn't care.

And if you're going to worship anybody, you might as well worship me. 'Cause unlike "God", it's feasible for me to punch you in the face.

[The Great OV!!!]

I can't respect love&pain, that guy is such a douche. After reading only 50% of what he wrote I already decided that he is a douche. To give all the affection to a hooker, **** that...I rather punch a baby bear cub in the face with its mother right next to it. See, this is why women don't care about the morals of going into that kind of life anymore...because they know some douche will come along and help them and even marry them along the way. They will keep doing it as long as there is no consequences. Unless ofcourse I don't understand what "hustlers" are. Anyways, It is disrespectful to marry two people, it is disrespectful in my opinion to both of them. Can she have many husbands? why not? You don't have sex with her because she is an angel? I don't know but it sounds like she already had sex, with pretty much everybody but you lol. I wonder if the douche thinks that women can have multiple husbands then as well?

dude you talking to me?

Whocares, he is an idiot. Don't provoke the idiot into more long pathetic opinionated posts. He just said he is about to leave, sweet.