Need advice on a "friend with benefits" situation

[Crispy12]

I told her, she was cool about it. She thought it would be better to just be friends, too. All good now

[Miss hotty]

Well if i was you i would go for it.

[misombra]

Four years older...hmm. My best guest here: She's a 21 or 22 year old teacher and you are a junior in high school, right? Buddy, I can read it like a book.

If you are ****ing the teacher, then she ain't your friend. She doesn't like you. She just getting laid dude. You are just easier than the effort it would take for her to turn the crank of an adult male....or buy batteries for her dildo.

A bit harsh...but your story sounds eerily similar to other abuse stories from the high school criminal log.

haven't you ever wanted to molest any of your students?

[CAM]

haven't you ever wanted to molest any of your students?

No. Never.

[Gigabitch]

No. You have never been my student. When you are, I will molest you as much as you like, Misombra.

Fixed your post.

[IndiReloaded]

No. Never.

Bullshit Cam. Don't tell us you've never thought about ****ing that gormless student who comes in a low-cut top w/her titties practically falling out, complaining how she 'just doesn't understand Question #8'.

But, its okay. We know you can't answer any other way.

[CAM]

Bullshit Cam. Don't tell us you've never thought about ****ing that gormless student who comes in a low-cut top w/her titties practically falling out, complaining how she 'just doesn't understand Question #8'.

But, its okay. We know you can't answer any other way.

Well, you are wrong...and I'm not just spreading the "official line" either; whether you choose to believe it or not.

I do not think of think of them in that way. And you example above...if one them pulls that crap. Except for family ties, NOTHING is worth my job. Not even if it were true heartfelt emotion for one them.

I'm probably the most rigid person you will ever know...part of the reason I'm still single. I'd rather stick with principle than compromise for love, lust, or anything else.

I even ditched my oldest friend (decades) simply on principle.

[CAM]

In life in general, I have passed up true love relationships many times in life simply based on principle.

[DoesntMatter]

I want to **** my math TA. Yeah I do

Given the chance, I would in a jiffy.

[Gigabitch]

I want to **** my math TA. Yeah I do

Given the chance, I would in a jiffy.

So what are you gonna do about it?

[gartlas]

(I want to **** my math TA. Yeah I do

Given the chance, I would in a jiffy.) Youre sick doesnt matter

[DoesntMatter]

So what are you gonna do about it?

Nothing She's like 4 years older than my I would estimate. Not that this would stop me

[Miss hotty]

Sleeping with someone who is a teacher now that sounds like a good idea. I have got to find myself a teacher i've if he's not my teacher.

[IndiReloaded]

In life in general, I have passed up true love relationships many times in life simply based on principle.

I'm not too sure that's healthy, Cam. This or your response to the earlier post. Its one thing to think a fleeting thought (she's hot, I'd do her), another to act on it.

But I subscribe to the philosophy that we are not responsible for all thoughts, only all acts of will. FWIW.

Do you think you control your thoughts so tightly b/c you worry you lack the self control not to act on them? Understand I don't believe you can't control your thoughts, of course you can, but I think to do it too much is a path to insanity. I bet your dreams are vivid, lol.

[CAM]

I'm not too sure that's healthy, Cam. This or your response to the earlier post. Its one thing to think a fleeting thought (she's hot, I'd do her), another to act on it.

But I subscribe to the philosophy that we are not responsible for all thoughts, only all acts of will. FWIW.

Do you think you control your thoughts so tightly b/c you worry you lack the self control not to act on them? Understand I don't believe you can't control your thoughts, of course you can, but I think to do it too much is a path to insanity. I bet your dreams are vivid, lol.

Hmm. A while since I've been on LF. Currently listening to Sister Christian (by Night Rider) on a loop.

A thought is an act of will because it involves neurological activity. Thought arises from the matter of our being...or am I mistaken about that?

I am very tightly wound. I'm not worried about a lack of control with a student. I wouldn't be tempted because while I do seem to always end up with attractive women...I am drawn to their inner being and not to their physiology. If I look at just a woman's body and outer beauty independently of her inner being, then I find myself becoming despondent, realizing that they are human beings who should not be defiled or used...that they probably have mothers and fathers who love them and that their basic desire is to be loved, truthfully loved. If they are not driven by those desires, if they are hardened individuals, I feel sorry for them because they are troubled and I don't want to contribute to their unhappiness. So, I could not look at just their outer being and gain any pleasure or be tempted.

At school, they trust me with their minds, whether they learn anything or not...and I respect that. If I didn't, I would quit my job.