Simple Question

[Gigabitch]

I agree with Indi 100%

[Zach]

So here is the end to the story.

Way back when she lived here I told her i had doubts that i was ready for the life style and said I thought maybe I wanted to be single. When the time came for her to leave I broke down and told her I couldn't go threw with it because I did love her and that meant more to me than anything and I knew I could make it threw what ever life threw at me.

At that time I really hurt her feelings but came back after realizing my mistake and she forgave me and accepted me back with open arms and tears.

She told me tonight that I am ditching her now that she made a mistake and has been having major issues mentally and emotionally. She forgave me when I made a mistake but I wont forgive her when she made a mistake.

I see her point of view, but to me allowing urself to where you have feelings for this guy is pretty much already giving up on us in your heart. I feel like she cheated on me in her heart with this guy. He knows she had/has feelings for him and she knows he has feelings for her. At that point, things are already over in my opinion.

I stood my ground.. I broke up with her.. but.. What if I should forgive her and give her another chance... She did it for me. *cry*

[Gigabitch]

Zach, this girl is not capable of having a long distance relationship without developing feelings for someone else. You'll have to be constantly wondering about where she is and what she's doing, not because you're some jealous freak, but because she has proven that she isn't reliable.

Either pack your shit and move there now or cut all contact.

[squirrley]

Its nice to give the old second chance bit routine. However she broke something, she broke you. My biggest issue is that in all this time she admits she has feelings for someone else and the day you break it off ALL OF THE SUDDEN she made a mistake. Keep asking yourself where did those feelings go for the other guy??????????????????///

[Zach]

Thanks everyone, I appreciate all your help seriously. You have all helped me alot during this <3

[cheybee1]

I've experienced brief attractions to other people myself but they came and went so quickly that it was not worth mentioning to either him or the guy I was attracted to. It sounds like this is something she is considering exploring and she wants her cake and to eat it too. Take time away from her while she decides what's important to her. You have to let her know that you are not going to close your eyes and pretend its not happening.

[IndiReloaded]

Either pack your shit and move there now or cut all contact.

+1

Still staggering around in the trench, eh? Feelings can rekindle, but right now there's no reason to believe anything has changed since your situation is the same.

[Tedel]

One thing to add... She's your gf, not your wife... What did you want to tie yourself up at all? Just move on and follow what the song says... don't look back in anger.

[Zach]

Her and I are broke up for good now. I told her I wouldnt allow her to go around and get involved like she did with other guys while she is with.

She is already with that other guy the day after. Just yesterday she told me she loved me and today she couldnt care less lol What a joke.

Thanks everyone, now its just time for me to remember how it is to be single!

[BVSensation27]

Basically she is stringing you along. It is like she wants both things, however, you can't have two things without letting the other go - make sense? I don't know how the relationship is, but if she is having feelings for someone else and not fully for you then her heart is not fully devouted to you. Don't be played for a fool. I give her points for being honest with you, but at the same time it sucks that her feelings for you are being shared with someone else. It's all or nothing.

[BVSensation27]

Her and I are broke up for good now. I told her I wouldnt allow her to go around and get involved like she did with other guys while she is with.

She is already with that other guy the day after. Just yesterday she told me she loved me and today she couldnt care less lol What a joke.

Thanks everyone, now its just time for me to remember how it is to be single!

eehhh, I see you found your solution. I'm pretty late. hehe

[vashti]

Just yesterday she told me she loved me and today she couldnt care less lol What a joke.

Yikes! You're kidding! Boy, does she have issues. I'm sure you will choose better next time.

[Junket]

Told you man.

We're love geniuses here.