girls ask for too much lol

[bluesummer]

Well said Vash.

[Illusional]

I don't know about idealistic, but I suspect you are a lacking the ability to see what it is men are expecting out of women. There's a big old long list of things you (men) want, too. You want women who look like they are 30 until they are 70. You want them to be as thin as a pre-pubescent boy, only with gigantic boobs. You want them to be always ready to f*ck on a moments notice with minimal amounts of foreplay. You want them to be smart enough to not embarrass you in front of your friends, but never smarter than you. You want them to earn money, but defer their opinions about how to spend it. You want them to pretend it is perfectly normal that he want to spend all his free time playing video games like a 12 year old, and she should never complain that she and the kids might actually want more from him than a paycheck.

is this really "too" much to ask?? if it is, then i'm one that doesn't mind a girl with small breasts.. just to shorten the list a little.

raverboy

[misombra]

I don't know about idealistic, but I suspect you are a lacking the ability to see what it is men are expecting out of women. There's a big old long list of things you (men) want, too. You want women who look like they are 30 until they are 70. You want them to be as thin as a pre-pubescent boy, only with gigantic boobs. You want them to be always ready to f*ck on a moments notice with minimal amounts of foreplay. You want them to be smart enough to not embarrass you in front of your friends, but never smarter than you. You want them to earn money, but defer their opinions about how to spend it. You want them to pretend it is perfectly normal that he want to spend all his free time playing video games like a 12 year old, and she should never complain that she and the kids might actually want more from him than a paycheck.

Everybody has preferences, but in the end, we all have to negotiate.

you forgot to mention that they want us to be virgins. and that they want us to shave, every day, large portions of our body. and to do all the cooking and cleaning while they tell you how hot some girl on tv is.

[Illusional]

you forgot to mention that they want us to be virgins. and that they want us to shave, every day, large portions of our body. and to do all the cooking and cleaning while they tell you how hot some girl on tv is.

shit, i dunno about you but i wouldn't have to have sex with an ape or any female that looks remotely close to one..

as for the virgin thing?? c'mon, that's like high school talk. everyone now days have been around the block more than once.

raverboy

[IndiReloaded]

Oops... Well, I didn't mean to scratch anybody's feelings here. What I meant is that some women want men to be successful, handsome, financially stable, long-lasting in bed, manly, chivalrous, polite, elegant... and if I continue the list will just get longer. This makes some men feel used instead of loved. It something like "OK, I have to get money, buy a house, provide this woman's living, take care of her, protect her, make her feel special, understand her caprices, etc." because I just want to have some company in my life... and I say this because many men's main motivation to get a girlfriend or wife, when it's not their sex drive, it is loneliness.

Yes, I do know what I have just written above sounds pathetic, but if you see think about it, though pathetic, it's a valid thought. I mean, some girls abuse in their demands and some men are stupid enough to follow them.

As I was taught, everybody deserves someone who would love him/her for what he/she is. You can make the rest come true by working and cooperating.

Disgracefully, TV shows and soap operas have made hundreds of people forget this tiny detail.

Actually Ted, I agree w/this. Not at all pathetic.

Best thing you can find (or uncover) in a partner is someone who is willing to support you to grow as a human being, whatever this means to you. Compatibility is really about finding someone who's experience or capabilities is a good fit for yours in this quest. Everything else, the details of how this happens (sex, kids, jobs, family, money, faith, lifestyle, etc.) is just the painting that takes place on this basic canvas we all start with.

[bluesummer]

Actually Ted, I agree w/this. Not at all pathetic.

Best thing you can find (or uncover) in a partner is someone who is willing to support you to grow as a human being, whatever this means to you. Compatibility is really about finding someone who's experience or capabilities is a good fit for yours in this quest. Everything else, the details of how this happens (sex, kids, jobs, family, money, faith, lifestyle, etc.) is just the painting that takes place on this basic canvas we all start with.

I really liked this Indi! It really falls in line with my way of thinking.

[DoesntMatter]

that's why the pimp slap was invented. just slap a hoe.

raverboy

Hahaha....

I don't know about idealistic, but I suspect you are a lacking the ability to see what it is men are expecting out of women. There's a big old long list of things you (men) want, too. You want women who look like they are 30 until they are 70. You want them to be as thin as a pre-pubescent boy, only with gigantic boobs. You want them to be always ready to f*ck on a moments notice with minimal amounts of foreplay. You want them to be smart enough to not embarrass you in front of your friends, but never smarter than you. You want them to earn money, but defer their opinions about how to spend it. You want them to pretend it is perfectly normal that he want to spend all his free time playing video games like a 12 year old, and she should never complain that she and the kids might actually want more from him than a paycheck.

Not me. I just want a girl who will straddle me once or twice a week

[DoesntMatter]

you forgot to mention that they want us to be virgins.

Yeah, and women want me to be a sex god. Every person is a piece of shit is what it boils down to

[Only-virgins]

I don't know about idealistic, but I suspect you are a lacking the ability to see what it is men are expecting out of women. There's a big old long list of things you (men) want, too. You want women who look like they are 30 until they are 70. You want them to be as thin as a pre-pubescent boy, only with gigantic boobs. You want them to be always ready to f*ck on a moments notice with minimal amounts of foreplay. You want them to be smart enough to not embarrass you in front of your friends, but never smarter than you. You want them to earn money, but defer their opinions about how to spend it. You want them to pretend it is perfectly normal that he want to spend all his free time playing video games like a 12 year old, and she should never complain that she and the kids might actually want more from him than a paycheck.

Everybody has preferences, but in the end, we all have to negotiate.

Lies wtf. I like breasts that fit the body(fake shit sucks). Also fore play completely pawns intercourse! and only immature idiots rather spend time playing games than with their family. I seem to like doing all the things that women want done but it will take a special kind of girl to pull it out of me....maybe everyone is just getting married with people they don't love in the first place

you forgot to mention that they want us to be virgins.

That I wouldn't mind though.

Yeah, and women want me to be a sex god. Every person is a piece of shit is what it boils down to

You mean everyone is picky and demanding ? duh...but I wouldn't say a piece of shit. I think at least I am no hypocrite.

[misombra]

all i want is everything. is that so wrong?

[Illusional]

all i want is everything. is that so wrong?

can't you just be satisfied with me you greedy bastard.

raverboy

[Tedel]

With what Vashti said, I think scores are even. Theoretically, both genders may be somewhat demanding.

Fortunately, true love many times gives you the reality check you needed to fall in love and form a family.

Others, it is your first child... well, you get my point.

[bluesummer]

Lies wtf. I like breasts that fit the body(fake shit sucks). Also fore play completely pawns intercourse! and only immature idiots rather spend time playing games than with their family. I seem to like doing all the things that women want done but it will take a special kind of girl to pull it out of me....maybe everyone is just getting married with people they don't love in the first place

OV, when I think of your posts almost four years ago, you have changed a lot....for the good. You are deserving of that one special girl, and it will happen for you if you are patient and don't lower your standards. I used to think your 'pickiness' was your downfall, but in the end maybe it's going to keep the freaks and evil women away from you.

And yes, lots of people are married to the wrong people. I was. Luckily I figured it out, not everyone does. It takes perfectly good people off the market that should be IN the market. I know of a few, myself.

[Gigabitch]

What the hell kind of girl wants a 14-incher, really? Jeeze! This reminds me of a friend of mine who got all slutty and started having sex in 9th grade. She told me all about the guy she lost her virginity to (in the backseat of a car, having a three-way with another virgin girl, no less), and she kept talking about how big his dick was.

She was a virgin, for God's sake. What does she need with a nine-inch dick?

Now that I think about it, she's probably the reason I held on to my own virginity as long as I did. That girl was...scary.

Anyway, OP, I have no doubt that the girl who (allegedly) demanded the 14-incher was, as Vashti said, just trying to stave off the lustful teenage boys. She probably thought she was being funny. I certainly would have laughed.

[Tedel]

Human nature, I guess.