Cheating...

[SteBall]

Every couple have their own boundaries. I was in a relationship for 10 years. We agreed that a quick kiss and a grope with a stranger was fine as long as we told each other about it afterwards and there was no swapping of phone numbers etc. I think it was really healthy and I used to get off when my gf came home to tell me all about how she seduced some random guy. But my mates just couldnt get their heads around it. Thought we were weird being so honest with each other. All the time they were doing getting up to the same tricks... they just didnt tell their partners about it.

I know which type of relationship I prefer.

[Cain]

Every couple have their own boundaries. I was in a relationship for 10 years. We agreed that a quick kiss and a grope with a stranger was fine as long as we told each other about it afterwards and there was no swapping of phone numbers etc. I think it was really healthy and I used to get off when my gf came home to tell me all about how she seduced some random guy. But my mates just couldnt get their heads around it. Thought we were weird being so honest with each other. All the time they were doing getting up to the same tricks... they just didnt tell their partners about it.

I know which type of relationship I prefer.

Eh, I'd damn sure have a problem with my gf doing that. In my opinion, physical contact that isn't a quick hug is cheating. Groping, kissing, rubbing places... cheating.

[zoso]

Eh, I'd damn sure have a problem with my gf doing that. In my opinion, physical contact that isn't a quick hug is cheating. Groping, kissing, rubbing places... cheating.

Maybe it's a sort of fetish him and his gf share?
You know how some people get off seeing their SO have sex/kiss/whatever with a stranger? Yeah, something along those lines.

I could never do that. Never.
That's just stepping over the line IMO.

[shh!]

Every couple have their own boundaries. I was in a relationship for 10 years. We agreed that a quick kiss and a grope with a stranger was fine as long as we told each other about it afterwards and there was no swapping of phone numbers etc. I think it was really healthy and I used to get off when my gf came home to tell me all about how she seduced some random guy. But my mates just couldnt get their heads around it. Thought we were weird being so honest with each other. All the time they were doing getting up to the same tricks... they just didnt tell their partners about it.

I know which type of relationship I prefer.

If those are your only two options, you are screwed.

[Cain]

Maybe it's a sort of fetish him and his gf share?
You know how some people get off seeing their SO have sex/kiss/whatever with a stranger? Yeah, something along those lines.

I could never do that. Never.
That's just stepping over the line IMO.

Sure, that happens, but I still think it's cheating. I wouldn't have a threesome with my girl and another girl because I view it as cheating, regardless if it is consensual.

If my gf came home and told me that she let a guy grab her ass or boobs or she was rubbing on his junk, I'd be greatly pissed and she and I would need to have a serious talk. If she was out kissing strangers, we'd be breaking up. You might get turned on by it, but don't be surprised if you get herpes one day. You said she will kiss strangers, and she can get herpes from a guy without her even knowing he has it... and she can transfer it right to you. Imagine getting little bumps all over the side of your face and down your neck... all because you wanted to let your gf be a tramp.