last night my ex and i decided 2 meet for a few drinks like old tyms. we ended up going to a club and well things tuk off from there.he had his arm round me which i fort was okies.we ended up dancing n just starting kissing but it felt right.the ex told me we were being watched by his gf's m8.she knew he was wit me as she phoned him up.every1 h8s her but he went bck 2 her afta me.shes possessive n demanded him home for 4am or its over.he didnt care tho coz she was gettin on his nerves etc.then it just led afta the club 2 *** and now im feeling really guilty.theres no regrets.it just happend.as we both know theres still love.just looking at him.u might read this and think im a b**** but maybe things r just meant 2 b.he hasnt dun a runner and part from that we enjoyed our night out.it was just great 2 b bck in his arms again.i feel horrible but its something sum1 just cant resisit.i really want us 2 b bck 2gether.but my work mates will h8 me 4 wot ive told them.but i love him and he loves me.i just dnt want 2 push him away.any help/tips?
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21-07-08, 02:35 AM #1
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my ex bf cheated on his current gf wit me last night-need help
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21-07-08, 03:13 AM #2
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What? English please...
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21-07-08, 03:19 AM #3
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I have a personal experience regarding this situation you are having... you broke up with ur friend.. now, you both think of getting back but he is in a new relation that seems to be not going well.
In this case, Who will be the intruder? Who needs to leave? is it the new gf or the original one.. i call her original not old because she still exists in his heart.. My opinion is that she has to leave ...
Once I met a married man ready to get divorce because of prbs with his wife while they have two girls. I told him to get back and make it up with his wife and not to break his marriage but to do more trials to make it work. Why does nt this new gf leave you and ur bf and go look for another one?
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21-07-08, 05:02 AM #4
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So, how many girls do you think he's cheated on you with when you were together?... let me guess... zero?
Yeah right.
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21-07-08, 06:11 AM #5
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This is a forum woman... not a text message to your friends.
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21-07-08, 06:43 AM #6
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hey i'll tell you what.. you should...
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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21-07-08, 07:45 AM #7
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Yep, he made the cake and wants to eat it too. He wants both of you. That's the kind of guy that probably cheated on you while you were together. He sounds like trouble.
Originally Posted by Cain
But you can do whatever you want...just be sure not to think about it before you do anything with him.
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21-07-08, 09:16 AM #8
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Sounds like this guy has got a good setup. He can mess around whenever he likes and know there's someone he can always come back to if things go wrong with his current girl.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
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Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
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21-07-08, 09:36 AM #9
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I highly doubt you love each other.
Lust or infatuation is more like it.
Think about it:
If he loved you, he WOULDN'T be with another girl.
If you loved him, you'd respect that he's in a relationship and OUT OF BOUNDS.
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21-07-08, 09:50 AM #10
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4 hoW lOnG u wEre 2getHer? 4 how loNg is he wIt heR? wAt he sayz he waNTs?
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21-07-08, 10:08 AM #11
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Hw lng er m8 h8 im 4? Wt if *** tem?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
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21-07-08, 10:31 AM #12
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Please learn to type like a normal person.
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21-07-08, 10:41 AM #13
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Das macht total blödsinn! Was für Scheiße...und eigentlich witzig. Übrigens ist deine Wege einen langen.
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Eeewwwww. That is all. Just eeew.
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Ur TypiNG Suks PEniS BalLz Originally Posted by Citycat
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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