How to have fun with a visual man

[bluesummer]

I could never date a guy that was so obviously aroused by other women. I figure if he finds them so hot, he should go date THEM.

I'm not stupid enough to think my bf doesn't find other women attractive, but he sure as hell doesn't show it if I'm around. He respects me.

[Gigabitch]

Boobaa, if humans were able to succeed soon after birth, your argument that men are biologically driven to spread themselves everywhere would make more sense, but it's not the case.

Implanting seed into a woman turns her into something that must be protected if that seed is going to come to anything, not just during gestation, but until that child is old enough to fend for itself.

It's the dregs of the genetic barrel that spread it out all over the place.

[sara_qt]

Wow – I think I did not anticipate such a deep discussion.
I want to have some fun with this guy and honestly I enjoy it when other guys check me out.
So men here is the question: an outfit that makes every guy in the club or bar want to hang around me – but at the same time I don’t want to look cheap.

[Dasein]

When I said that all men are visual I meant that they are more likely to be aroused sexually by visual stimuli..hence why there is the majority of porn made for men.

Oh and your man doesn't need to have a wondering eye for him to be visual. He could appreciating YOUR outer beauty.

[Dasein]

I'm not stupid enough to think my bf doesn't find other women attractive, but he sure as hell doesn't show it if I'm around. He respects me.

Yeah I'm actually with you there. I think I would be a bit peturbed if my boyfriend had a wondering eye

[Cain]

Wow – I think I did not anticipate such a deep discussion.
I want to have some fun with this guy and honestly I enjoy it when other guys check me out.
So men here is the question: an outfit that makes every guy in the club or bar want to hang around me – but at the same time I don’t want to look cheap.

If you're wearing something that is causing every man to want to hang around you, you're already cheap in their eyes.

If your bf enjoy watching other men hit on you, don't be surprised if one day he tells you he wants to watch some other guy rail you.

[boobaa]

Boobaa, what kind of repulsive females have you been dating? I have *never* had to force myself to behave in that manner. I actually go on dates and spend my love-life with people who have something worthwhile to say. When I go on dates, I actually have so much fun that I am distracted from the environment. All my focus goes into the task at hand. I am not actively looking for women to 'plant my superior seed into'. Sure, every now and then I notice a gorgeous female get up and walk around, but if I am taken, but why should she be of any concern to me. If I am with a girl that fulfills all my needs, then I am really not interested in other women, honestly. Sure I notice what is good looking, but I don't have sexual desires about it. Not about getting laid.

So if that wasn't your point, you need to be a little more clear.

The sense of beauty is very closely tied to sexuality. Without our sexuality, our creations of beauty would be VERY different.

Of course, to this day, this is just theoretical like most of the psychology. But according to this, looking at a woman and finding her beautiful is a very sexual act. Actually, looking at furry animals and finding them cute is part of our sexuality also.

You can of course say that you don't think anything sexual while glancing other women when on date but in reality, your testosterone is working and you are not in any way completely focused to your date. In fact, you are only focused because you have something to work on, your woman is responding back, but you are definately influenced from surroundings.

The uninfluenced part is just all in your head. Look at different cultures, where monogamy is not so spread for example, look what other cultures find normal and what are their beliefs.

[lesa]

The sense of beauty is very closely tied to sexuality. Without our sexuality, our creations of beauty would be VERY different.

Of course, to this day, this is just theoretical like most of the psychology. But according to this, looking at a woman and finding her beautiful is a very sexual act. Actually, looking at furry animals and finding them cute is part of our sexuality also.

You can of course say that you don't think anything sexual while glancing other women when on date but in reality, your testosterone is working and you are not in any way completely focused to your date. In fact, you are only focused because you have something to work on, your woman is responding back, but you are definately influenced from surroundings.

The uninfluenced part is just all in your head. Look at different cultures, where monogamy is not so spread for example, look what other cultures find normal and what are their beliefs.

So what you are saying is that you are into Freudian theories?

My house and car are cute. Does that mean I am sexually attracted to them?

[Cain]

So what you are saying is that you are into Freudian theories?

My house and car are cute. Does that mean I am sexually attracted to them?

Apparently.

That must be why there are pornos where the women is ****ing the shifter.

[lesa]

Apparently.

That must be why there are pornos where the women is ****ing the shifter.

OMG boobaa IS on to something!!! I drive a stick shift and give it a handjob as a tease to bf!!!! I'm sick, help!

But what about the house?

[Cain]

OMG boobaa IS on to something!!! I drive a stick shift and give it a handjob as a tease to bf!!!! I'm sick, help!

But what about the house?

Every time you touch a door knob, you're wishing it was a tit.

[bluesummer]

My house and car are cute. Does that mean I am sexually attracted to them?

I remember saying the other day that my friend's car was so hot, that if it was a guy I'd **** it.

[anachronistic]

The sense of beauty is very closely tied to sexuality. Without our sexuality, our creations of beauty would be VERY different.

Of course, to this day, this is just theoretical like most of the psychology. But according to this, looking at a woman and finding her beautiful is a very sexual act. Actually, looking at furry animals and finding them cute is part of our sexuality also.

You can of course say that you don't think anything sexual while glancing other women when on date but in reality, your testosterone is working and you are not in any way completely focused to your date. In fact, you are only focused because you have something to work on, your woman is responding back, but you are definately influenced from surroundings.

The uninfluenced part is just all in your head. Look at different cultures, where monogamy is not so spread for example, look what other cultures find normal and what are their beliefs.

The concept of beauty is not at all tied with sexuality or love. Are you saying you want to **** every beautiful landscape you see? Or that every beautiful song you hear makes you want to **** something? How many people have you been sexual with boobaa? How many guys and girls have you confessed your undying love for?

When you are with someone, you are not interested in other people. You will have to see for yourself. When you're with someone, it's like **** everybody else, you could live on an isolated island for the rest of your life with that person. You might notice an attractive person, but for any sexual feelings that you have about them, there is something wrong in the relationship.

Again, this is just how I feel. Some people want to **** every person they are attracted to, others want to kill everybody they know. And some just want to live by themselves, way up in the mountains where nobody will bother them. You're living in a world where individuality is masked by society, Boobaa. So you can say people are this, and people are that, but an aware individual is going to see that as your way of justifying the way you feel.