Who would you choose?

[Only-virgins]

Not very good at taking criticism are you? Ah well.

When did I say I hated judgemental people? How am I being judgemental by pointing out things that men don't like? I'm speaking from experience, because I know a lot of older well established men, and I know their tastes. I simply said they do not like insecurity or judgemental behaviour. They like intelligent, independent women with strength of character. They don't have to be beautiful. They can't be ugly, but they don't have to be supermodels.

Keep in mind I'm also talking about men my age (28) and older.

Sorry you think I was being rude, but I wasn't trying to be. You just don't like my opinion, which is fair, but you are just as bad in calling me shallow and telling me I don't know what I'm talking about. Keep THAT in mind.

Oh jeez, you are such a party pooper.

Just keep being funny. There are lots of girls who like that.

Yea, the ones of number 3 quality.

[katya]

Not very good at taking criticism are you? Ah well.

When did I say I hated judgemental people? How am I being judgemental by pointing out things that men don't like? I'm speaking from experience, because I know a lot of older well established men, and I know their tastes. I simply said they do not like insecurity or judgemental behaviour. They like intelligent, independent women with strength of character. They don't have to be beautiful. They can't be ugly, but they don't have to be supermodels.

Keep in mind I'm also talking about men my age (28) and older.

Sorry you think I was being rude, but I wasn't trying to be. You just don't like my opinion, which is fair, but you are just as bad in calling me shallow and telling me I don't know what I'm talking about. Keep THAT in mind.

ok, it doesnt matter really...i don't feel like discussing it anymore...i think that threre was a misunderstanding and i believe in what i am saying...wasn't talking about her looks, but about her elegance in every sense of the word, even her behaviour...she can be very sweet and caring and my friend told me he likes that about her...nevertheless, strength of character and intelligence is what she definitely has...she is realiable and dependable and if somebody does not see that, then they can lose knowing a great person and have a great friend. that's all i said. you concentrated in insecurity, which to me is not a good characteristic, but not that negative and was surprised that somebody would seriously fail to date somebody just because they are insecure. she is young as well so her security will probably strenghten as she ages. i hope it does.

actually, both of these women are great. i wish that the first one is a little bit more subdued and tolerant and the second one stronger and sometimes takes things in charge. everything else depends on personal taste. i don't think that one is better than the other at all

[bluesummer]

Oh jeez, you are such a party pooper.

Realists often are. Still, sorry to poop on your party, OV.

Here's en edit for your sake:

All men want to is to bang a hot chick, regardless of who she is as a person. As long as she has a bangin' body, will clean his house, sleep with him, and occasionally bring him food while he watches tv, she is fundamentally perfect.

There, all better?

[katya]

Oh jeez, you are such a party pooper.



Yea, the ones of number 3 quality.

no actually intelligent, great, good women

[katya]

Originally Posted by bluesummer
Not very good at taking criticism are you? Ah well.

it's not about the criticism...you are being very disrespectful in you conduct with me...i hope tha tyou see that and i really say that as human being to human being, not because i want ot start another argument.

[Only-virgins]

All men want to is to bang a hot chick, regardless of who she is as a person. As long as she has a bangin' body, will clean his house, sleep with him, and occasionally bring him food while he watches tv, she is fundamentally perfect.

Now we are on the same page.

[bluesummer]

That's what I thought OV. Lol.

[Only-virgins]

Actually, no. 2 is not me. I am doing this for a friend, who is choosing between two women that he really likes. I happen to know the second one a little bit longer than the first one and that is why it seems that I wrote too much. Actually, I was trying to be fair and include all the good and bad qualites of both.

By the way, if you have to have such a hard time deciding what women you want to be with between two of them than you don't deserve to be with either of them. Though I am have a strange way of looking at things compared to the common culture so oh well.

[katya]

By the way, if you have to have such a hard time deciding what women you want to be with between two of them than you don't deserve to be with either of them. Though I am have a strange way of looking at things compared to the common culture so oh well.

No you are right. That's what I told my friend. He asked about my opinion since I know these two much longer, so I am acquainted about their personalities. I told him that I cannot make that decision for him and that it would not be right for me to choose which one of the two would be better for him. I told him to follow his heart, but he doesn't know, so...He is a good guy, really. He wouldn't do anything to hurt somebody. I know that for sure. This situation is really hard for him; however, I understand why you would think that he doesn't deserve any of them. I guess I would think the same if I wasn't acquainted with the whole situation.

[IndiReloaded]

Number two sounds like a pain in the ass. Number one sounds more practical.

Yep, I agree. #2 sounds high-maintenance. That's a turn-off for a lot of guys considering LTR/marriage.

If neither of these gals are you, and you don't know either one well, why so much energy in posting this? Just curious. Are they both wanting to date your brother or something?

[IndiReloaded]

All men want to is to bang a hot chick, regardless of who she is as a person. As long as she has a bangin' body, will clean his house, sleep with him, and occasionally bring him food while he watches tv, she is fundamentally perfect. So long as she leaves him alone otherwise & doesn't bother him w/her own needs.

Fixed your post. Blue.

[miSSleepy]

You are not competing, that is true, but you are identifying with the first one more, am I right? Please do not take it the wrong way. It doesn't matter to me either.

Huh? How did you make that connection?
I'm quiet and shy and only say things that I think are worth saying. If you stickl around longer, it might also become clear that I'm very questioning and critical.
Please stop trying to pull out some notion that I'm somehow girl #1 OR 2.

[agatha]

I'll go for #1.
Sensitive type is really hard to handle.
So i'll choose #1.

[sir_vile_minds]

My girl IS number two so my answer is obvious.

[excowho]

My girl IS number two so my answer is obvious.

.......
#1?